Ok my friend let's just say she sucks. A lot of people think she's really rude. She doesn't know im mad at her though, I'm too nice. For one thing last year we were in the same class and I got really mad at her and told everyone on accident and then she sent me this letter on e-mail saying how mad she is at me and how im a bi**** and that she doesn't want me telling everyone about this and im a baby and more. She's just a terrible person but she still can be a good friend. I go on myspace everyday and today I looked and I'm not on her "top 4 friends any more when I used to be #2 and now I'm really mad What should I do! She's also bossy.
2007-03-19 14:13:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thx so far everyone i wont talk to her but i wont ignore her or try to draw attention
2007-03-19 14:31:51 · update #1
If you keep hanging out w/ her then you are either really shallow, insecure, or really desperate. Find a more worthy friend. L
2007-03-19 14:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by LUCY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so understand I'm walked over by all my friend(s) too. It's funny everything you said has happened to me and I guess that I should do something about it. I really think you should tell her how you feel and maybe punch her in the nose for calling you a bi**** (just kidding but if you want to do it;)) Tell her that she's going to be missing out on a geat friend if she doesn't start treating you better. I was worried before if I was the only one treated badly by friend(s) thx^_^and I hope I helped you out too like you did for me!
2007-03-19 21:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of know what that's like. I have this 1/2 friend, if you know what I mean. Sometimes she's my friend and sometimes she's not but I still feel a little hurt when she doesn't "need" me or she has something like an inside joke with someone else. Anyway, I would probably try to break bonds with your "friend." She doesn't sound like a friend to me, and even though it might be a little uncomfortable, just try not to invite her over as much or talk to your other friends. If I were you, I might be glad she's found other people she can abuse.
2007-03-19 21:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that you could find another friend that is just as capable as being nice. There are lots of friends out there that can be nice without all the drama. Is she really worth it? A nice person like you deserves an even nicer friend.
2007-03-19 21:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by oms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well for starters dont go telling everyone about your problems, don't send her emails back or anything. and if she does send you abusive emails again go to the cop shop. Thats what I did, and it works. Any form of msg, like proof eg txt msg, email, internet convosation you can print out and give to the cops. They'll fix it up. Why do you stay with her if she is like this, find a new friend who you can trust and tell anything to.. because darling she doesn't seem trustworthy or sh.i.t.!! good luck bub and i hope u get away from her!!
2007-03-19 21:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step away from her. Not because everyone else dislikes her, but because she's rude and obnoxious. She doesn't deserve to have a nice friend like you. Tell her how you feel and tell her that if she doesn't straighten things up that your friendship is over. If that doesn't help, stop being so nice, and finally just be mean and obnoxious to her, so she can feel how everyone else feels.
2007-03-19 21:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it matter what number you are? Isn't it the more important thing is that you are friends? About your petty bickerings, very normal among youngsters. You go through hot and cold moments. So just be your natural self; and allow your friend to be her natural self too. Give and take. Enjoy your youth. And may your friendship grow old with you.
2007-03-19 21:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by tin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let's start with the fact that she is a bi**** and u shouldn't b wasting your time. It's stupid to try to work things out with her. You admitted yourself that she sux, but u like her anyway??? If she called u a B**** and she's a "terrible person" find new friends!!! Don't bother with forgive and forget.
2007-03-19 21:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by sickelsie3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It dosnt seem like shes treating you right. If you keep being her friend, then you are the only one thats miserable and youre just wasting your life being mad. I suggest u not be friends with her but tell her why so she knowws.
2007-03-19 21:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell her strait up the way you feel and theres a chance that she might change and if she really is a true friend maybe shell take in consideration what u tell her....
2007-03-19 21:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋