Why do men have difficulties with maintaining platonic friendships with women they've slept with?

Answer 1

In any friendship a man has with a woman, if he's slept with her or not, he always wonders if he could.

Answer 2

Definition of plutonic relationship

1) Temporary relationship, be it emotional,personal,marita l, financial... that could happen to somebody somewhere in this planet.

2) A one-sided relationship that not only fails to ever get romantic, but that manages to get you publicly humiliated in front of your peers when the object of your affections openly dates someone else.
3) Derivation: Greek god Pluto : a relationship with all the benefits including ones on the sexual as well as the emotional levels.

So you see, you need to identify which definition are you running on?

In Singapore context, it is assumed that a Plutonic relationship is one without any sexual context or even kissing and touching. It is a situation of we are the best of buddies and on trust and respect and where both parties share their joys and sorrows.

So How can you expect your man to be plutonic in Singapore context when he is enjoying.......

Men are more sexually gregarious by nature and therefore the moment sex comes into play, they can no longer be plutonic. You see, men are not sex crazed. It is that they are more of the weaker sex which requires more touch and they are more pampered. This accounts for their fientish over things like woman's breast, touching, etc all which are more relating to the baby natures.

so the moment they are into this, they cannot remain plutonic

Answer 3

Normally men don't sleep with their "friends". They also figure if they could have sex once, why not again? Because you are friends? Doesn't make much sense. Best plan is to not have sex with someone you truly want as a friend. Another point, guys normally want other guys for their friends. They want a woman for a girlfriend, wife or sex partner.

Answer 4

Mainly because the women know what type of guy they really are after going to that extreme.

Answer 5

Not all men do. Maybe just the ones you know. You should perhaps ask them?

Answer 6

its because the boundries have now moved..a woman gives herself aman wants..once you have dropped your panties why change?a guy thing is you have buddies and you have real buddies you have become a real buddy..then you let go you become a traitor

Answer 7

Its a rejection thing