a psychotic lesbian takes u hostage ... ur sitting in a room strapped to a chair ... under each hand is a big red button .... the curtains part and there are two rooms ... in each room is a person strapped to a chair just like u ... on the left is ur boyfriend/husband ... he is ur best friend ... u love him unconditionally ... u've stuck it out thru thick and thin ... on the right is ur girlfriend ... she is ur soul mate ... with her u feel most like urself ... alive and happy ... the psychotic lesbian says bi's are confused and u have 30 seconds to push a button (left button=left room vice-versa) which will make that room explode ... if u don't both rooms with detonate killing both ur loves ... which button do u push and why?
2007-03-19 13:58:03 · 11 answers · asked by pachickiedee 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's the hardest question around. I guess I'd choose to save my girlfriend, mostly because of the way you describe my feelings about her- soul mate, who I feel most like myself with.
Alternatively, although it would be a tragic ending, I would refuse to choose, and just show that psychotic lesbian a thing or two about bisexuality.
In the end, it's pretty awful either way.
2007-03-19 15:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is like that short story "The Lady or The Tiger" everyone had to read in seventh grade. I don't think I could push either button because I'd be in shock and paralyzed with fear. I'd be thinking that no matter which I picked, my connection with the other person would be ruined because of the trauma. I'd offer my life first. I'd be thinking of memories and hopes and fears and then BOOM! they'd both explode. And then I'd go kill myself.
Thank god this ins only hypothetical.
2007-03-19 14:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by melzoom615 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would never have a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time. It's like the same thing as cheating, totally wrong. So ha! But if I really had to choose I would have to decide who I loved more.
2007-03-19 15:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by radioxrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you're bi doesn't mean you have to be with two people at once. Bi sexual people can have monogamous relationships too. Bisexuality does not = promiscuity. If you carry on a relationship with two people at the same time, you deserve to loose them both, unless of course they know about eachother and are ok with it.
2007-03-19 14:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is one of the silly questions that causes nothing but alot of pain in either answer depending which side you are sitting on. the olden days, it is a question where if your spouse is on one side and the mother is on the other side in the sea, which would you save first.
In logic, it is always to save the nearest one.
In science, it is to save the one with the highest probability of surviving.
In family context, save your spouse.
You see, life is not always about choice, if you are place in the matter of such choice, then you have indeed screwed up your life. Life is about sharing, be it to share the lesbien girlfriend with your spouse can be equally entertaining for you as for him. at the same time, if he feels that it is wrong when you feel it is right, then in the first place, both of you are not suited for each other as you are definitely not sharing the same taste of life.
The reason for me to cite this example was because i once had a friend who was married and his wife is I guess, about 32 years old. She loves him as a husband and so does her 26 year old sister and both of them did tell me when we are at the Pub that he did enjoy sex with both the wife and sister at the same time.
You see, life is not so much about the kind of question of choice.
Or in the words of Kenu Reeves.......shoot the hostage to take it out of the equation.....so in your case, shoot yourself so there is no choice, your husband and lover can then be together in sharing the great wonderful memory of you while they loves each other.
Cheer on friend......don't take life and sex too seriously now. Times has changed
2007-03-19 14:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Matchstick 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is a difficult question to answer. I wouldn't put myself in a two way relationship. But, since this is a hypothetical question, I would choose my boyfriend because that's who I'm going to marry.
2007-03-19 15:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...this question is psychotic...i wouldnt choose either what is she going to do she explodes both rooms it isnt your fault for not choosing...
A person can love 2 people at once it isnt that hard to comprehend...obviously to you it may be..but seriously grow up it is not hard to understand loving 2 people equaly just diffrent kinds of love.....I love the rough firm touch of a man and the soft gentle love of a woman.....
2007-03-19 14:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by KarmicFacilitator2000 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, I wouldn't do that. and I wouldnt have a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time. I'm bisexual, but I'm manogomous, I dont cheat on my bf (if I have one) or my gf (If i have one)
2007-03-19 14:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would choose my soul mate because why would u choose the one who doesnt complete you?
2007-03-19 15:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
right botton my gf did things to me no guy has ever done :]
2007-03-19 14:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋