I'm a guy, and I have a good friend who is rather good-looking. We live in a dormitory, and the toilets are shared. Now the door of the shower cubicle, when closed, still has a thin gap where ppl can peek through. The problem is, I sometimes feel tempted to look through that gap and see my friend when he is showering or just finished showering (and about to change). I wanted to see how his dick looks...I think I might be gay...please help!
2007-03-19 13:30:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no, no, no, no. dont do that. instead, get him over to your own dorm room to 'hang' out.... put on some porn... start jerkin off, and he will be sure to follow. you'll get to see how his dick looks, and you may even get to do some other things. good luck. dont peep through the crack.. someone will spot yoou------- it wont be good.
MAYBE he doesnt lock the shower door? go in wearing a towel, open the door, and catch him by surprise?
wanting to see another guy's dick DOESNT make you gay. read this article, devour the site, blah blah blah... gay or not, be sure to get that guy over to your dorm. you could probably end up being phuck buddies.
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2007-03-19 14:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by louie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys always compare themselves to other guys, that is normal... my son did it as a teenager, the guys actually all measured to see who was bigger than who... established their "pecking" order and moved on. Having been denied that normal experience you will be more curious than others, it does not make you gay just because you haven't had close friends you felt comfortable comparing yourself to.
I would caution you though, peeking is not nice and is an invasion of his privacy. If he is a good friend you should know if you can tell him you are curious, just tell him "dude, I've never really compared my sh** to anyone else, and I'm curious how I measure up." If he's not too homophobic he may show you... if he is homophobic it's better you find out now. If you're really concerned about speaking out you might want to pay attention to that feeling and move on.
2007-03-23 14:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shawna S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
is he your roomate?
please don't peek on him if he's your roomate, he may catch you then you will both be uncomfortable around each other. he may even call the front desk and request a different roomate. If you want to see a guy naked or be with a guy, try for one that is not your roomate
2007-03-19 14:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then, what's the big bet? Go ahead, you're certainly gay as you are physically/sexually attracted to the same sex as yours. Throwing some feelers at him might even pave your way to further jumps.
2007-03-19 13:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Curiosity killed the cat...
Anything without a person's consent is a no-no... Other people have rights, too!
2007-03-25 19:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Cheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay is just the definition of being sexually attracted to the same sex. Since you think your friend is good looking and want to see him naked, it would appear that you are sexually attracted to him. If you would want to be intimate with him and do not want to be intimate with women, then that means that you are gay. If you want to be intimate with him and also would like to be intimate with women, then that means that you are bisexual. If you have no desire to be intimate with him and only want to be intimate with women, then you are mostly straight but curious about how another guy appears naked.
2007-03-19 13:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think you are gay! But so am I!!! Talk to your friend. See if he has similar feelings.
2007-03-27 12:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for anyone that has you as a friend. Get some help.
2007-03-27 07:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may just be curious, but if you are gay who cares? Theres nothing wrong with it. I say be with whoever makes you happy.
2007-03-19 13:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to the club I want to see all of my male friends naked!
And yes I am gay you need to be honest with yourself about who you are.
2007-03-19 13:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋