well after class my girlfriend doesnt even look back if im still in the classroom or doesnt even bother to wait for me and i tried holding her hand and she just puled away and we spoke about stuff like this and what she is doing 3 times already and i dont know if i should break up with her or not pleaz help me and i really love her but it hurts alot to see her doing this to me thanx in advance
2007-03-19 13:27:07 · 7 answers · asked by mikey boi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Confront her, but don't attack her. Give her "I feel" statements, like you did in your post. Otherwise, if you use "You" statements, she will feel under pressure and attacked, which will just cause her to get angry.
Love is not always easy, it is a bumpy road, so if yours ends with her answers or lack thereof, take what has happened and keep it in mind for your next relationship, that way you will avoid more painful feelings in the future. If you just break up with her with out communicating, you both have lost, because neither of you will ever be able to settle what is between you. Best of luck!
2007-03-19 13:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by chermoe06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts when some one that you care for may not feel the same. Leave her alone. Speak to her only if she speaks to you and then make it brief as if you have some where else to go. Most likely if your disinterest in her does not spark her curiosity it may be time to end it. Remember life is precious we should be treated with respect and kindness. We should accept nothing less. Peace
2007-03-19 13:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by scruffie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like such a sweet guy and now's the time to not be so sweet. I know you love her but u need to tell her "Look, what's your deal? I care about you and all you're doing is pushing me away? Do you want me to go away? What's going on?"
And what has she said when you talked to her. Has she said sorry? In my opinion, leave her. She's being stupid and needs to get over herself before she can be in a relationship.
2007-03-19 13:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cold just be having her period dude. It will pass. Be understanding and forgiving. All the hormones can really mess some girls up sometimes. And whatever you do, don't ask her or she will kill you.
2007-03-19 13:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is wrong. ask her if something is wrong or if she is acting that way because she wants a break up- be up front with her.
2007-03-19 13:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's someone new in her life, and she's afraid to tell you.
2007-03-19 13:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her
2007-03-19 13:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by g_rant07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋