Is it true that sex hurts worse thin your first time after you have a child? just a scary thought and would like to no
2007-03-19 13:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by [[I am the mess you chose]] 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
during labour i tore and required stitches. we waited about 4 weeks, and used a condom and lubricant. i cant remember much pain, just relief as we were both pretty randy lol!
2007-03-19 14:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a single mom after I had my daughter so I didn't even get "there" until she was 8 months old. By then it was like I'd never had a baby.
With my son, my guy was crawling the walls and when we got the 6 week go ahead I remember being pretty freaked cuz it was so early and I do remember it hurting a little bit. I remember thinking that with the next baby we were waiting longer, period.
Maybe a glass of wine or something would help, or even taking a few tylenol an hour before the big deed. I think the glass of wine might help, just to relax you a little.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-19 13:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not true. People probably say that, because alot of people have to have stitches down there, after they have a baby. Anyways you will bleed for about a month to two months after the baby, and will heal. But it does not hurt to have sex after having a baby unless you have major tairing.
2007-03-19 13:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never experianced any pain during sex after having my kids.
But I had vaginal deliveries with no tears or episotomy. I didnt even wait the 6 weeks and was fine everything was the same as it was before falling pregnant and giving birth.
I think it all depends on the birth and how well and fast your body heals.
2007-03-19 16:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had four kids and I do not remeber any extrordinary pain with intercourse after waiting the 6 week waiting period. And with my first one I had a fourth degree episiotomy. The other three were c-section.
2007-03-19 13:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by starsun moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you wait the 8 weeks and use a condom and some lubrication. These with alot of love and understanding from your husband/Boyfriend will make the experience a good one
2007-03-19 13:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kellie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During delivery, I had ripped, and needed to be stiched up.
I waited the 6 weeks, and USED PROTECTION.
But, IT HURT, more like a stinging feeling.
2007-03-19 13:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by phamy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It did hurt slightly and was a little uncomforable, but definately wasn't as bad as the first time.
2007-03-19 19:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had intercourse at 5 weeks and i was so nervous but no it didn't hurt me at all, during birth i had a small tear as well, but wasn't bothered.
2007-03-19 13:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by emery_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it did for me...and i waited longer than 6 weeks. but it can be different for each person.
2007-03-19 13:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by The Spazz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋