but the few, play head games. like in my last question i told about the kind of girl im after, and are they attracted to me and my circumstances and how could i get the type im after....i explained i liked pale chubby white girls in their 20's and i expressed i felt unable to attract them and that i wouldnt lower my standards.. then some answerers said i'll probally never get that, and to lower my standards...one answer said, ill probally end up with someone skinny and afro carrabean, and that ill love her back. and shell love me..this got me really angry and upset. because i no what type of girl im looking for... why do people do this???
2007-03-19 12:50:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
people try to be clever, they like to pull legs as well, I try to be fair with my answers, although sometimes I wonder if the questions are serious, but I take them as being serious as I wouldn't like to upset people..
hope you find your dream girl. Good luck.
2007-03-19 12:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by lazybird2006 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Palmer,
Calm down. They're just having fun. You can't take this Yahoo Q&A thing too seriously. And by the way, I didn't see your original question, but judging by what you've just stated, it doesn't seem all that serious or life altering. I don't mean to take your question "lightly", I'm just trying to explain why some people respond in a certain manner. Perhaps you should try talking to a close friend who understands you, rather that posting your heart-felt questions here. I, for one, hope and trust that you will find the pale young chubby white girl that your heart desires. Best wishes to you.
Sincerely,
Cherish
2007-03-19 20:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cherish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are giving their opinion. If you do not want to hear others peoples opinions then don't ask the questions. I'm sorry but that's just they way it is.
And in regards to you first question about the type of girl you are after, I thought I wanted a tall dark handsome guy in his late 20's or early 30's who had a really good career. However, after dating many men like that I have ended up married to a guy in his 50's who is short, slightly chubby, blonde with shaved hair and who works in the construction industry. Not what I dreamt of whilse single but I wouldn't change him for the world.
Love happens reagarding of what you think you are after. The person that said you will end up with a skinny afro-caribbean was probably trying say that, when love happens, it happens regardless or what your ideal is now.
2007-03-20 08:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by willowbee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know hun. Each to his own eh? I have noticed that no matter how serious a problem someone has there is always someone who will put them down which bothers me a great deal.
Some people have nowhere else to turn and they can be subject to such cruelty its unreal. i deliberately asked a question, which was false, but very serious sounding. I got a lot of idiots taking the piss, which under normal circumstances would have hurt deeply. They shouldn't be allowed to carry on.
Shame there isn't a little button to get rid of the morons for good.
2007-03-20 16:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of kids on here..so try not to take it too seriously.They dont realise that some questions are genuine .I am sure you will find someone when your least expecting it, I did! (and most people do)
2007-03-19 19:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have found out that asking questions in here can be hard to do , i never get great answers and normally always get annoyed when its a serious question as i feel when someone asks a question i try my best to answer it to help the person.
2007-03-19 19:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some people are just having fun here (some are immature) some just get tired of answering seriously and loosen up a bit. Hey, this isn't oprah here sweetie nor is it your regular psychiatric hospital, okay? just ignore the brainstems my dear!
2007-03-19 20:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Virgo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are never going to find anyone...if you insist that you only want specific characteristics! you are living in a dream world...i want johnny depp...but it aint gonna happen! even when you find a chubby whatever she is never going to live up to the standard that you have dreamt up for yourself.... its not a case of lowering your standards its a case of being realistic!
2007-03-19 20:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Cat Lady♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of people are trolls and they ruin the YA community for others.
2007-03-20 17:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because not all questions are taken serious by everyone, so it does help to have a sense of humor,
2007-03-19 20:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋