OK. So, my best friend is usually good about this sort of thing, because I liked one of her other exes (they had only gone out for 2 weeks though, broken up, gone out for another week, broke up) and she said it would have been fine for me to date him. She wouldn't lie to me and we're disgustingly blunt with each other about EVERYTHING...but I like her boyfriend. Ex-boyfriend, now. I liked him before they even went out, but I let her have him thinking I never had a chance. Now they've broken up and he likes me too. Is it against the rules of friendship to go out with him if she says yes and I give her enough time? I would never make a move without her permission, and if she said yes I'd believe her (we're close enough that we don't hold any bars, and we'll tell each other EXACTLY what we don't like about the other...).
2007-03-19 12:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also, he admitted to me now that he likes me. I told him that I didn't know if we could act on it because of my friend, not for awhile, at the least, just to buy me some time.
2007-03-20 02:01:26 · update #1
Just ask yourself is any guy worth jeopardizing a friendship? Second NO Guy is Worth Making you look Easy because regardless of what you think guys like to talk amongst themselves or to others. And you may not see it now but you'll probably end up with a guilty heart at some point.
2007-03-19 12:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by gchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-20 03:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-05-01 04:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.
2015-02-02 12:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the golden rule...do unto others. If you were in her spot would you be "cool" about it or would you feel like a jerk for telling your BFF no. My guess is that it's the latter. Go with your gut.
2007-03-19 12:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Hawaiian Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great to hear u wont make any move without her permission..as long as ur friend is not tripping about you guys...dont hurt ur friend...for a guys who may not be worth it.
2007-03-19 12:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by KC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your asking for trouble
2007-03-19 12:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully i don't think you should do it... ur pretty much askin for trouble, no matter wat your friends says about it, it's just somethin you probably shouldn't do
2007-03-19 12:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by luvin_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋