ok my husband i find ( late at night) jacking it off.... what can i do to stop him from doing that. i mean its not like im not giving it up. but im starting to fill nasty. and we have great sex. so why does he do this????
2007-03-19 12:42:21 · 13 answers · asked by me & you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've read some of the answers you received and i have a different opinion. I think husbands see women during the day (a bank teller, the girl who checked his groceries out at the food market, a woman walking down the street....) and they fantasize about them, what they'd be like in bed and they take a few minutes for themselves to think of that womean while they do themselves. It's not to say he's not getting enough or your not giving him what he needs, it's just him and his fantasies. Also, men like to fantasize about a situation out of the realm of what the usual experience they have with their wives, maybe theirwife and the girl at the check out store. Men are complicated beings. All us women want is flowers and a nice card once in a while and some simple comliments. If anyone has an opinion about my opinion feel free to e-mail me.
2007-03-19 13:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you catch him ask him if you can help. Him jacking off probably is the reason yo have great sex. The more he uses it the longer he can last for you. I get turned on by my husband jacking off.
2007-03-20 01:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL men need it is a guy thing, is normal and there is no reason to feel nasty about it, i'm sure you have done it too.....just let it go not a big deal
2007-03-19 19:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of time men do this for stress relive offer to help him with it but to ask him to stop why? it has nothing to do with you or how he feels about you or the amount of sex you give him so let it be or join in and help him!
2007-03-19 19:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a guy and all guys masterbate. Plus since we do it all the time we know what we like and it does not take as long as sex.
2007-03-19 20:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by G Money 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bekieve ALL men do it. mattied or single. I myself prefer the real thing but sometimes she is too tired or not in the mood so whatever works. go for it.. maybe join him and yall watch each other. it might bring you closer to each other
2007-03-19 20:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take his masterbating personal, probably something he started doing long ago and now just does it out of habit.
You should surprise him and ask if you can watch it would probably turn him on!!!
If you've never masterbated you should try it.
2007-03-19 19:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rustb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must not be getting enough. When you see him choking his chicken step in and take charge. And tell him it bothers you that he's doing this, and ask him why he doesn't innit ate sex with you.
2007-03-19 19:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not feel nasty maybe you could give him a hand he may just need to keep in shape
2007-03-19 19:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by mars101_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes all you want is a quick release in which you only have to satisfy yourself
2007-03-19 20:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋