I get very close to my husband, ask him about his day, I get very loving with him but he is to dry. We don't talk much we have been married since September 2006 yet he dont even remember the day we got married. If I dress up he will not even tell me if I look nice or bad.
2007-03-19 12:39:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like me.....
... i'd say act agressive!
2007-03-19 12:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro Sanchez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes my hubby just isn't in the mood at night when he gets home from work. He says that sometimes sex is the furthest thing from his mind because he's so exhausted. So he's started setting the alarm for a little earlier in the a.m. when he's fully rested. Maybe your husband is just too tired. I usually have more luck on the weekend too. Just tell him how you feel and figure out what works best for both of you!
2007-03-19 12:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Candice B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually that predisposes a loss of communique, have faith and openness. the will for intercourse is in many circumstances one-sided. yet, if the guy who's grew to become on is incapable of arising sufficient arousal of their important different, they might use some help. intercourse is ninety% psychological and the greater foreplay and teasing a guy or woman does, the fewer this turns right into a controversy (SEE components) Intimacy (no longer inevitably sexual) is absent of administration and manipulation. whilst 2 persons are making love, the only administration exerted could be if one guy or woman is on good or the different. If a "guy" does not choose to be married, he will end it and be a guy! If a chew of paper is retaining him married, then he's a weasel.
2016-12-18 18:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's kinda bored with the marriage life. You should spice it up a little bit. Buy some sexy lingerie to make the day a more exciting. Experiment with new things. Remember that sex isn't what it's all about. You should try doing more together to make the communication increase.
2007-03-19 12:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like that...my husband didnt start complimenting me, until I told him point blank that I needed it, and as my husband he should.
As far as sex, I am playful with him, drop hints constantly...kinda prim the pump all night so when the kids go to bed he is ready to go.
Last night I suggested he stop rewiring the gadges on his car and come play with my gadges. I have suggested he lube my chasis too. be playful, inventive but not needy. I tend to go commando as soon as i get home from work to...let him know it...we may have the children running around, so he cant do anything till they go to sleep...but knowing that I dont have panties on, teasing him every time the children are in another room, and whispering suggestions in his ear all night...he is more than ready once our little boys go to sleep.
2007-03-20 10:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by deda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband doesn't have much interest in sex so I find the direct approach works best when he's actually interested. As far as how I look, best to be direct there too "how do I look" usually works. He knows be honest too, I'd rather he tell me that something looks horrid then a stranger.
2007-03-19 12:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him when you want sex..... he might like you to just come out and say it.
And you did marry a man so the other stuff is normal. They don't think like we do and you have to learn that.
Next time he comes home just be naked and he will get the hint! Good luck
2007-03-19 12:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is i would come straight out and tell him ...look i want booty so lets roll. Alot of men will tell ya that they want it too but you both beat around the bush about it and wait to see who is going to make the first move, guys always say that they aren't mind readers just tell them, trust me come right out and tell him what you want and when you want it, if he doesn't reply to that then there is something wrong with that man
2007-03-19 13:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Undress. Seriously, men want to be pursued too. We want to feel attractive also. Why do you think peacocks have those smokin' feathers and the hens don't? Slip into your birthday suit and attack. Be aggressive. We can take it.
2007-03-19 13:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't take hints very well. Just be forward and tell him you'd like to have sex!
2007-03-19 12:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by whispurrr_on_a_scream 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A hand on his groin, massaging back and forth and look him in the eye. When he gets firm, say, "Oooh! Somebody's awake."
2007-03-19 12:46:32 · answer #11 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋