2007-03-19 12:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If just thinking of something bothers you, try engaging yourself in something creative. Nurture a hobby or learn a new skill. Go out and meet other friends. Talk to your family members whenever possible. It is not a bad idea to get yourself evaluated by a professional.
If the person keeps bothering you by his/her actions, make it clear that you are not in a mood to tolerate it any more. Give clear warning and if it does not deter the person, take appropriate legal action.
Remember, "Tough times never last, tough people do"
2007-03-19 13:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Smart Indian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, exactly the same has just happened to me. Since I moved in with this person whom I thought to be my best friend, every thing has changed. He started finding new friends, ignoring me, not coming back home, keeping the house untidy. In short he did exactly the opposite of what I told him. He lies ,gets angry on me if I tell him to do his part of the house hold chores.He has even gone to the extent of physically abusing me.
There is this one guy whom he can't stay without, might be he is gay?
I never felt so ignored and hated. I had also decided to leave the place once. Now as we have a common friends circle, he always hangs around with them, and I am left out. Every one around thinks I am the bad guy.
We stay in the same house but do not talk, the environment in the house is very stale too.
How to move on? I know he is this way but still I wish I was his friend!!
2007-03-20 10:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by ashu2sinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that some people come into your life for a moment, some for a minute, some for a day, some for days, weeks etc. No one is guaranteed to be in your life forever. For the most part when relationships fall apart at times, it is because that person's presence is no longer needed on your life's journey. At times we have to come to the point where we must let people go - even our best friends at times. Unless you wish to take the first steps to mend the relationship.
2007-03-19 12:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be, she was never a good friend you tried to give in a lot and she took advantage of it, and may be suddenly you realised and that's how it must have broken just think and analyse how and why it broke is she worth continuing or was is good that it happened time can only heal the pain. if it is for petty thing or if it is your mistake just keep aside your ego and fo and apologise and if she is a true friend she will welcome you back.
2007-03-21 01:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by rema e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why it is said don't investment in a relation as much as, as much you can not afford to loose.
Theta is why it is taught
Rahiman nij man Kee vyatha man hee rakho goy.......The person who was your friend knows all your loop holes. Just forget him & forgive him not for him but for yourself.
It is useless to burn your blood on this spill milk
Just go & see some movie read any romantic or vulgour movie. It will divert your mind.
2007-03-19 13:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is universal truth that the best friend can be the biggest enemy if any.
2007-03-21 23:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by sss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must b bcoz of sum misunderstanding
try 2 resolve d problem peacefully
or u apologise him as sum1 has 2 take d 1st step
2007-03-20 19:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by abhi malik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya.........i can feel ur pain!!Same happened to me!
i kno u feel like very much ignored and hated!!right??
ya......but see wat to do?
i used hav a best frnd...but when i discoverd her other friends wid whom she always used to roam and talk ....she used to ignore me a lot!she quarrelled wid me also!
but she always acted as if i was her best frnd!!!,.....i was angry but hurt inside!...i cried !i cried!
now shes my worst enemy!
but now i am ok!i hav made new frndz!.......but i hav lost d courage of making a best frnd again!!
so my friend!.....let it go!!it happens sumtimes in life!
get out of it!! this is 2007!!...4get it!
there r many frndz to make......even though dont think dat there will be a true frnd 4 u anywhere!
its me
May
CHAO!!
2007-03-19 22:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid them. Change in place also helps a lot.
2007-03-19 12:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recomend confronting your freind and appoliging to them Just be like (im srry) and if there like (for what?) be all like (for what i did to make u mad, im srry can we be freinds? ) It should work ^_^ if not thats not a good freind to begin with
2007-03-19 12:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋