My two friends Katie and Danielle are being basically stalked by this junior guy George. katie, danielle, and I are sophmores. George keeps sending Katie sexual messages. She tells him hes nasty and gross. Danielle is being repeadtly called by George. She is getting fed up with him calling. Her familys getting annoyed too. Shes had some of her guy friends yell at him. He wont get the hint. She was afraid to walk by George after school today so Katie and I brought her to her tutor. Everyone is sick of George. i told danielle to get a block so george cant talk to her, and I told Katie to save the messages from George and report him. Is this the right action? what else can we do?
2007-03-19 12:32:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you better report him and yes it is right to save the messages as proof . even the call history so you can show it to the proper authorities
2007-03-19 12:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You told them right. you might also, inform the school's head of the George problem. for all you know he may be doing that to other girls too. Sounds like George has problems, Next time George calls Danielle, she or her parents should inform him that if he calls again, he will be reported to the police. Then they should both keep a log of the phone calls and messages, after that and follow through and make a police report. Maybe if he gets a visit from them, he'll get the idea. Also, there will be a record of that should George continue doing that to others and they also make a report. Maybe eventually he'll get the help he so obviously needs.
2007-03-19 19:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps bothering you can report him to the police. Because stalking is punishable by law. Have you told him politly to leave you alone. Also yelling or insulting him or being a "*****" towards him (Saying out of context not saying the word to degrade women) will only encourage him to continue as stalkers enjoy the negitive attention from women. Other times people who are stalkers lack social skills may do so without realizing it so sometimes explaining to him assertivly how he makes you feel works. Also try to ask help from your boyfriend or socialy sane males to escort you. Or if he is sexually attracted to you sometimes showing up around him with poor hygein may turn him off. But the best thing to do is stay away from him, assertivly warn him to leave you alone. If he still continues call the police
Follow up- Nyree your idea is only going to put her girlfriends in danger. Also a breakup in a relationship can be a common motive that drives stalkers. So breaking up with him will only get him stalk you too.
2007-03-19 19:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should report him to the school and then go to the police! Stalking is a form of abuse. Talk to your folks, and your friends folks. The best response to a stalker is NO response. IT will only encourage him more to know that he is upseting all of you. Both of your friends need to turn over any messages from "george" to the police. this will help in obtaining a protection order. you may also want to go to the following web sites. http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/teens/dating.asp
http://www.usdoj.gov/ovw/aboutstalking.htm
2007-03-19 19:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by clules1der2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds serious george might be very dangerous report him to the proper authorities if her parents have an attorney call him and let tell them their options and take george to court for sexual harrassment that is a serious charge for serious situations like this one.
2007-03-19 19:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well tell your friends to go out with George. Then she should yes to being her girlfriend. Then tell your friends to be a crappy girlfriend and George will probably get over her and move on.
2007-03-19 19:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nyree H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a restraing order or call the police. or have some of her guys friends beat up george or whatever. =) it works!!! (USUALLY) but thats my best bet, seriously. sorry i can't do better. Crap I always mess things up!!! all well. might as well try. wait, was that out loud?
2007-03-19 19:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by CeliacSucks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one creepy dude. You should go to the police about him. He's a stalker. But I have a feeling, he knows it's getting on your nerves, and wants it too... when he hangs out with his guy friends or whatever. Go to your principal.. counselor.. police.. anybody. And if it's bugging her family!? Do something to get him in trouble!!
2007-03-19 19:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by NICOLE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report the little pervert - the worst thing that can happen to him at this point is his life is nowhere near as bad as it will be later.
The sooner he learns where the line is drawn, the better.
2007-03-19 19:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report him to school officials and higher ups, and travel in groups until he is taken care of.
2007-03-19 19:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋