All rite... so my friend and i used to be really close, but then she started gettin into some bad things and she started pushin me away. We've been through a ton of stuff together and she's one person i feel like i can really trust. But now we aren't nearly as close and i feel like we're only gettin farther apart, which is really hurtin me. She's not doing the things she was doin, but we still aren't close. should i try to fix things, should i just be there for her and hope that she comes around, or should i just try to forget bout and not worry bout bein frineds any more??? please help!!
2007-03-19 12:21:12 · 17 answers · asked by luvin_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should just forget about her, but always keep her in your heart like if she needs you for anything be there for her. She come around once she see's that you have knew friends.
2007-03-19 12:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It sounds like you are a preteen or a teenager. If you are, it is totally normal for you to go through these things. For instance, when I was in junior high, I had like 10 friends; they all go to my highschool, but I don't talk to either of them. We all grow apart eventually, it's very rare to stay friends with someone for so long. I'm not saying that it's impossible, I'm just saying that it's rare. Your friend may not ever become close to you again, and you may separate....but, you will find friends again in the future.
2007-03-19 12:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should try to fix things since u have been friends for so long. If it doesn't work, then u know u tried and just forget about it. U can meet someone better , one u will gain trust with again.
2007-03-19 12:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lilac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that to become close you should do things together like throw a slumber party to become close. The more time you spend with her the closer you get and you can keep her from doing bad stuff. It's a win-win. If she doen't come go to dinner together, see a movie ,get a starbucks, go to a salon, whatever she likes to do, find something that can bring you closer
2007-03-19 13:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by sufer_gal_700 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to fix things, if the friendship is important to you. It may not work, if you have grown too far apart. That happens sometimes, sadly. If thats the case, then move on, and try not to pine over it. But at least, you will know you tried. Good luck!
2007-03-19 12:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really, really good question. I personally think that you should try to get help for her. Maybe go to your school counselor, or something and tell them about your problem. If you don't want to get help that way, pull her over sometime and ask her about it. It's important not to come across as someone who is just trying to change her. You have to show her that you really care about her. Good Luck.
2007-03-19 12:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was ever truly your friend, then the friendship isn't over. She is making choices that don't include the two of you right now. So, you do the same. Even the closest of sisters, don't share everything.
2007-03-19 12:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 get close 2 her again and remind her gow good of a friend u r and if she still pushes away just tell her ull always b there 4 her and give her her space
2007-03-19 12:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by ammbannock72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not like you have to toally push her outta our life. maybe you should just give her time to come around. call her once in a while to see how shes doing ask if she wants to hang out and maybe shell get that your gonna be there for her. and even if you guys arent as close you can still be friends. just let her know that youll be there for her.
2007-03-19 12:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by RUBY<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was having that problem 2 . if i were you i would tell her how you fill and try to work things out. if it doesn't look like she wants to work things out then forget about it because that means she doesn't care and shes not a good friend
2007-03-19 12:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋