Not physically but emotionally. I've been betrayed and hurt in the past by women so I kinda want to hurt them back as revenge. I want to date them, gain there trust, and then cheat on them with a friend or family member of theres. I know it may seem wrong but I think its the only way to feel better again.
2007-03-19 11:58:15 · 13 answers · asked by cbcvb b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
That is a normal feeling. If you've been hurt you tend to want to hurt others. Your trust was broken and this is how you cope. It's normal but you should probably try and forgive and forget, it's better than leading a life of sorrow that will end with you alone.
2007-03-19 12:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is not the way you will feel better. See a therapist. Just because one woman hurt you does not mean that all women are the same. It sucks that there are some trampy harlots out there who give all women a bad name. But you need to remember that when you find true love, there will still be some pain involved. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. But thats what makes things so great. Hurting the woman who loves you is only hurting yourself. I hope you find peace.
2007-03-19 12:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by LittleItalianInMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its because you're feeling bitter about what has happened to you in past relationships.
You understand that it hurts and how pissed off it makes you. Why cause that to another person when you KNOW how much it can destroy and hurt a person?
Not every woman on the planet is going to hurt you like that, you might end up emotionally damaging someone just as bad as past relationships have damaged you.
Its normal to feel bitter and angry in this situation. But theres a difference between feeling it and acting on it.
2007-03-19 12:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by tiffany! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you've had such bad relationships in the past, but you can't put all women in the same catagory. A lot of women out there are just plain evil, I know becuase I am a woman and I see how they are sometimes.
There are some out there who will be nothing but good to you, you just have to find the right ones.
2007-03-20 04:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Peach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't feel better-not in your soul where it matters.
Hurting the innocent also makes no sense.
If your neighbor killed someone is it just that you go to prison?
Being "betrayed" by other women is not just cause to hurt those you don't even know. Sounds like you need to heal your mother issues. It's not about the women-and you will ultimately be hurting yourself if you hurt others.
2007-03-19 18:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off: yes. 2nd: know that like food, women are not all the same. there are they spicy ones (the bitches that hurt you) and then there are the warm mild ones (the ones that u probably hurt) think that most women are the milder ones and want 2 be with you. If you hurt women like other women hurt you then pretty soon the world will be a pretty crappy place with people cheating continuously. if you want to hurt the women that hurt you then it is undestandable. but leave the innocent ones alone
2007-03-19 18:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by D-mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a psychology or sociology project that you feel the need to pose the same question in 5 different places, or are you merely that sick? Most people are capable by age 3 of determining that reasoning the way you describe is counterproductive.
2007-03-19 12:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by Helmut 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Letting any action of a woman influence you in that direction is you giving them too much control over your mind. Not a criticism just and observation. Want to get even witht those in the past, forget all about them.
2007-03-19 12:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!
What would that prove...that you are a bastard because you allowed youself to not see the truth about the C unts you dated??
I've been f'ed over by many men and then I realized it was me allowing these men to do, not standing up for myself, not leaving, believing against better judgement.
I hear you dude but it will make you feel worse.
2007-03-19 12:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
So, how does this work? Do you hurt the woman that hurt you or the next woman that comes around?? You need help asap. You have a developmental issue.
2007-03-19 12:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋