Not physically but emotionally. I've been betrayed and hurt in the past by women so I kinda want to hurt them back as revenge. I want to date them, gain there trust, and then cheat on them with a friend or family member of theres. I know it may seem wrong but I think its the only way to feel better again.
2007-03-19 11:57:02 · 33 answers · asked by cbcvb b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not being mean, but you definitely have mental problems! You really should talk to a professional about them....a person that loves you should not have to bear your revenge, for what someone else did to you. See a doctor!
2007-03-19 12:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will not make you feel better. Are these the women that hurt you? If not, then where will the satisfaction come from? To hurt an innocent in pursuit of some kind of revenge against a third party is just wrong. Living well is the best revenge. Find someone to love. Honestly, completely, and without judgement. Embrace happiness. Release your pain, it serves you no purpose but to hold you back. Not all women are guilty for the wrongs done you by A woman. Is it just to blame ALL women for the wrongs done you by only a few, or one? Of course not. I know it hurts, but it hurts a lot more when you don't let it go, and it keeps holding you back. Break free. You'll be glad you did.
2007-03-19 12:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so doing to someone what was done to you, makes it better? It doesn't really make you feel better, or you wouldn't keep having to do it. And keep in mind, that Karma comes back, so whatever you're doing now will come home to roost. What about the women that WOULDN'T hurt you that maybe you're losing just because you want to get some kind of revenge? The thing is, you're getting the revenge on the wrong, INNOCENT people, and damaging people like you were damaged. That's just right out sad. The best revenge you could have is to live well, hold your head up and treat people with kindness and respect IN SPITE OF the loser that did the opposite to you. To show HER that you are STILL standing, and you're STILL a good man. This way, all you're doing is stooping to her level. Dude, that's messed up.
2007-03-19 12:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it the only way to feel better again? You are hurting women who may not even deserve it, and they actually might be the decent ones... Yeah, females can be bitches, but is it worth getting your revenge? What are you trying to prove? This is no way of getting over a woman who hurt you...it just shows that you are still hung up over her...You need to find some other healthy way of letting your emotions out, not put your anger on other people... Letting people in is the hardest challenge. instead think, What have you learned in your past relationship...how can this experience strengthen you as a person?
good luck
2007-03-19 12:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by OnAJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so you feel better that you did that to them, what else do you gain from doing it?
In the long range of things, you actually loose out twice.
Once by doing it to them, and taking up your time.
And secondly, by leaving you without anyone.
And thirdly, you may have just screw up a chance with someone who may have been your soul mate.
Your not alone in rejection and hurt from women.
I think your feeling that you are singled out.
And that women are rejecting and hurting you because you feel that they don't live up to your standards of thinking.
Or that they don't want to continue in a relationship longer then you had hoped. It does not mean that they are being mean to you, just that they wanted to move on. Which is a good thing as well for you. After all why would you want to stay with someone who wasn't meant for you.
I think you need to be realistic for you own good. So that when the right woman comes along that was actually meant for you, then you will be there for her....instead of wasting your time carrying out a relationship for the wrong reasons, such as you have been doing.
Try not to take rejection and hurt to hard.
I know it is painful for you, but realize that it is apart of human nature to feel the pain and just let yourself know, that it wasn't meant to be, with that person and it does not mean that you were not good enough, just simply not meant to be.
2007-03-19 12:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a life you must have. One of revenge isn't someway I would want to spend my life. Hurting someone is wrong, and someday your going to find that women who you really fall for and she may do this to you. How could someone have hurt you this bad that you would seek women and do such hurtful things to. Playing with someone heart is the worst sin you can do whether be a man or woman. You have no respect for women it what part of your problem is, I was married to someone who didn't respect us because he said almost the same as you, well guess what he ended up hurting me badly but in the long run I still won.
2007-03-19 13:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But the women you are hurting aren't the ones that hurt you....not all women are the same. It is not fair to take out your pain on an inocent women that may never want to hurt you. You need to get over whatever happened to you in the past so you can move on and find a good woman.
2007-03-19 18:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It's wrong to do this. Maybe you could do yourself a favor and get some counseling to deal with these issue's you have. You'll be a better man for doing so. I've been in your situation several times, got to the point i couldn't even stand to look at a woman much less have one touch me. Then I sought some counseling, worked through it, and I've a whole new attitude about women, they are just great.
2007-03-19 12:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to make other people suffer the way that you have been made to suffer. Does that sound fair to you? You have some demons to wrestle, and hurting others will only feed the beast. It's time to talk to a professional who can help you work through this hard time in your life. I mean this sincerely, as a woman that has been hurt... don't pass on the destruction.
2007-03-19 12:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by dougandkate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what your saying but you gotta look @ it like dis ...if i got hurt by a man and then later i went and got with u and cheated on u wit ur brother or something..you would be mad becuz u shouldnt suffer 4 something some jerk did a long time ago....so no its not wrong to want revenge on those women who hurt you but it is wrong 2 want revenge on all women becuz women are evn more sensitive then men so if u think u feel bad imagine how a women feels exspecially when she didnt do any thing 2 you.
2007-03-19 12:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by jazzyj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋