emergency!!!?

Question

my period ended on friday 16, i had unprotected sex on saturday. he pulled out but i know that there can be a prejacualtion.i went to a family planning clinic and the nurse there gave me an emergency contriceptive.i took one pill 5:45 pm and i have to take the next one between 5:45 am and 8:00 am. the effectiveness of the pill decreased because of how long i took to take it but its still suppose to work. i really dont want to get pregnant now.i'm turning 16 on april 2nd and i dont want to tell my parents (who dont know i'm having sex) that i'm pregnant. any possitive words are welcomed.
PS. my boyfriend is 22 and can be thrown in jail if my parents find out. he isnt taking advantage of me or anything. we love eachother and he is there for me.

as i said befor only possitive words please.

Answer 1

ok, let's try and be positive here.....

you are in a relationship with a guy who is 7 years older than you at a time in your life when seven years is two worlds of difference. there is like a 1 in a million chance that this is the guy you will be with forever, you do know that, right? it could happen, but most likely not.

when I was your age I did the same thing, and I slept with my boyfriends some of whom were much older, and I did get pregnant. I know you want to hear everything is ok and that you can't be pregnant and that your relationship is admirable.......but those are all lies and I think the most positive thing I can do for you is be honest.

I don't regret much in life, but I do regret what lengths I went to to be loved and the ways I would justify my actions to myself.

Yes, sex is fun and it makes you feel grown-up and condoms get in the way. We all get that. Here is how I know that you are not really as grown up as you'd like to be.....you are hiding things from your parents, which means that on some level you know what you are doing is not 100% right. Even if you think to yourself that you not telling your parents is about them and how they will react, it's not, it's about you and what you know to be right. If you were 100% sure, you wouldn't care what your parents thought.

You know about condoms....I read your answers to other questions and you told someone else to always wear a condom....and now you aren't following your own advice. Again, you already know what is right and are compromising what you believe. Why are you doing that? Were you the one who wanted to continue fooling around when you realized there was no condom? I am betting not and that he talked you into it, but I wasn't there so answer this to yourself honestly. But I do know this....he is not the one who can get pregnant. That's all you. Are you ready to be a Mom? Can you see yourself giving a baby up for adoption? Or making the decision to terminate? THOSE are all options that suck. I hope you never are in that situation.

If you are on it enough to get the morning after pill, be on it enough to get some other birth control. Let's be real, you are not going to stop having sex, I mean, c'mon, your screen name is SEX CRAZY. So get real and take care of yourself. Go to a clinic if you can't go to your family doctor. Your 22 year old boyfriend who loves you should be willing to help you get to a clinic.

And even after you get a diapham or go on the pill or whatever, condoms are still important. Do you know about HPV? 1 in 5 sexually active women (that's you) have it. It mutates on your cervix into cancer. Yes, cancer. I had cervical cancer at the age of 32 because I had sex in high school in order to be loved. Three surgeries, yes three, and I almost had to have a hysterectomy. I am not trying to scare you, I am trying to speak some truth.

It's not just about HIV and not getting pregnant. It's about self-respect.

So in a positive way I urge you to love yourself as much as you love your boyfriend. Or maybe even more. Cuz I know this much is true, wether you end up with him in the long run or not, you will end up with you.

Answer 2

That makes him a pedophile. =/ Maybe you should try not having sex and doing something else to show how much you really love eachother. You can't base a relationship on sex. And if you're still going to have sex, use a a condom. There are also a lot of diseases you can get from sex. If you get pregnant maybe that'll show you what a bad idea it was to have sex in the first place at such a young age.

Answer 3

I wouldn't worry too much you're probably not pregnant. Ovulation usually occurs 2 weeks before your period starts. This is when you're most fertile. You took all the right steps to prevent pregnancy. Be careful next time. Any time you have sex you have the chance of getting pregnant or STD. Hope you learned you're lessen and abstain from sex until you're ready to become a mommy.

Answer 4

A 22 year old guy that is having sex with a 15 year old is not in love with you. because if he loved you he would not be taking advantage of you. Please wake up that is not love, and youre to young to be having pregnancy scares. I have a 15 year old sister and I would just die if I found out she was having sex, let alone with a 22 year old. He needs to be shot. I am not trying to be mean or negative but I really feel sorry for you and what you had to go through.

Answer 5

I hope in your case that you are not pregnant but there is a possibility the pill may not work.I was fifteen when I had my daughter ,now twenty-six.Having a child at a young age is very difficult.The best thing you can do to prevent accidental pregnancy is to with stain from sex until you are old enough to deal with the consequences.I hope the best for you.

Answer 6

Sorry, there is nothing positive to say about statutory rape. Nor is there anything positive to say (in an family planning way) about unprotected sex.

I would suggest a bit more research into the myths surrounding unprotected sex and why you can get pregnant even if he 'pulls out' and why you can (like 1 out of 5 Americans) have a sexually transmitted disease.

Please don't come here seeking 'positive words' about your uniformed actions and his crime. Get some facts, and get some help.

Answer 7

well, gee, "sex crazy"...

you are sad. what 22 year old has anything in comman with a 15 year old (yes, you are still 15)? i hope for your future child's sake that you aren't pregnant. have you ever thought of picking up some condoms at the planning center, along with your plan b? i have no positive words for you , simply because you aren't being smart about sex. i just hope that you learned your lesson, and i would hope you will tell your parents about him. he will go to jail for statutory rape. you weren't of a consenting age when you started sleeping with him.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

You should not have let him in the 1st place! He might take advantage of you. Be careful about that! If you don't want to get pregnant use protection or do not do anything! Please do not take them pills- which you already have, if you're pregnant it'll kill the baby, and thats murder, I do not believe in. You need to be more responsible, and if he really cares he will be too!

Answer 10

One of my ex-boyfriends used withdrawal as our form of birth control and I never got pregnant. I hope that everything works out well for you.