Have you ever vowed to yourself that you would only have relations with the same gender, only to find yourself hooking up with someone of the opposite sex? This happened to me last month at a party, she basically threw herself on me, and we had consentual sex. I climaxed and everything, but the experience felt hollow. Has this happened to you. What about the ladies out there, have you been swept off your feet by a guy, when you prefer other women?????
2007-03-19 11:47:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-03-19 11:47:58 · update #1
yeah i have. and i did enjoy it. i was his mistress and what's crazy about it now is that we're best friends.
2007-03-19 12:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥sista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been weird. I'm mostly attracted to males, but I've been with a ton more females. But then I've only ever REALLY had feelings for girls. Until now, that is. Right now, I'm with this guy and we have sex and I actually really like him a lot. It doesn't feel hollow, but it does feel a little odd. It's not bad, though. What is gender, anyway, besides some chemicals and reproductive organs? I don't see myself as "female" even though I have a female human's body. The fact that I was born with a vagina is just fortuity; I'm not attracted to either sex as a rule of thumb. Instead, I just kind of decide on a case-by-case basis. Whatever. I'm not sure if I answered your question..
2007-03-19 19:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a while back a male friend of mine (gay) and I decided that we would have a baby together and due to lack of money and other things, we decided to do it the "natural way". He was very sweet and loving, even romantic, but the whole thing was unpleasant. I didn't enjoy it at all physically and emotionaly it seemed all wrong, except for the reasons why it was happening. Unfortunatly I did not end up pregnant and we both decided it was too traumatic to our friendship and just plain yucky to do again.
2007-03-19 18:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually prefer men but I had a fling with a woman and it was the most satisfying sex of my life.
2007-03-19 20:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..... I came out to while in my teenage years and swore I was done with men. I was in a relationship with my girlfriend and she left me for another woman. Typically..... I went out, alone, and tried to drink my problems away. I winded up talking to this guy who was really nice. I honestly thought he was being nice to offer me a ride home. I truely thought nothing of it. But he leaned in and kissed me when I was about to get out of the car. I was shocked but didn't stop it. One thing lead to another and I ended up with a man back in my bed 6 years later after I swore I was done. I honestly don't know why I did it, Maybe for comfort, Maybe because I was upset, or maybe because I was never really done, Maybe I will never know.
2007-03-19 18:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have and no
2007-03-19 18:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋