When a woman telss you she can never love you is it time to give up. Being married ten years and she says she cannot love me. Do I leave?
2007-03-19 11:34:15 · 16 answers · asked by The SHARK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES. You will find the love you are looking for with someone. Obviously its not her, Im surprised you put up with this 10 years!
2007-03-19 11:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long has it been bad for. My husband & I had a very bad year once. I though there would never ever be love again. He was persistant that it would come back and he would be there when it did. THings got worse before they got better. I wanted a divorce...but he wanted to give us time. We are still together and the happiest couple that I know. We only argue on necessary topic...silly little things like why did you leave the toliet seat up does not matter. Give in and take a second to put the seat down yourself!
2007-03-19 18:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by soccersyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, she didn't sugar coat it did she? Why would you want to stay, she obviously isn't connected to this relationship anymore, and instead of her filing for divorce, she is telling you these things so you can go get it done, down right selfish! You have many options, but I think that you would be better off in the long run to leave now with a little self respect, before she starts getting desperate and doing worse things to try to get you to leave.
2007-03-19 18:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is loving someone, and being IN love with someone... the 2 are totally different in my opinion... I'm in the same boat with my wife... I'm loving her the best I can, but we both fell out of love a while ago, after an affair she had... long ugly story... I have forgiven her, but I will never see her Through the same eyes I used to...
2007-03-19 18:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Topher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not leave yet... seek counseling and help for this marriage and for you and try to make it work with her before giving up on it. Why does your wife feel that she can never love you if i may ask? Do not give up keep trying.
2007-03-19 18:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you continue to punish yourself. Leave and move on. I don't know what happen or if she ever loved you to say something do harsh. But don't stay and let this make you bitter to all the other women in the world.
2007-03-19 22:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by ~Stepa♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your self what am I trying to save? a relationship that is one-sided, If she's telling you she don't love you , I would think it's over! 10yrs means nothing if she never loved you.
2007-03-19 19:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tree70 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two!! But I think all marriages are worth trying to save!
2007-03-19 18:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Angel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to tell her that marriage is not aboutr love only, it s about manyyyy other values that are even more important. It s about respect, caring, sharing....
I wish you good luck
2007-03-19 18:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS AN SHE DONT LOVE YOU?
BRO, ITS TIME TO GO.....
2007-03-19 18:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by gabe m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋