yes i have been married for quite sometime or have a fling thanks havent yet done anything
2007-03-19 11:27:04 · 37 answers · asked by psma9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Listen, you did not have to get married. IF your husband is abusive, then divorce him, if its just a lustful issue, fight it, that is when you know you have dignity...when everything is going well in a marriage, you don't feel that you have to work at anything, but when temptation rises, that is when you proof to God the ties he made between you too.....
Think long and hard please....the grass is not greener on the other side.
2007-03-27 00:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do either. Did you meet this person online? What country? Most of these people are scam artists trying to take you for all you have and most of what your spouse has. Once they get that your booted out with nothing you have ruined the only important relationship in your life (your marriage) and you have nothing left. I work for a financial institution and we are now being trained to try to talk sense into people that are thinking of doing the same thing you are. What will you do when your marriage is over, all your assets are gone and you are stuck in a strange country with not even enough money to get home?
2007-03-19 19:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be getting the attention that you need at this time, you should talk to your partner, to see whats going on with your relationship. In a marriage there's always up's and Downs, but do you really want to thorough you marriage away. That other person might be given you the attention, that you aren't getting at home, think about what your feelings for your husband.
2007-03-27 08:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope....life never turns out well when you do one of these things. you're a smart woman, so you know that if someone asked you that same question, you would tell them not to go. if you leave your husband (who i'm assuming you still love) for some guy in another country you are going to regret it. don't take my word for it, i don't know the whole situation, but whatever you do, figure out your marital situation with your husband first, maybe try some counseling. if you're that unhappy in your relationship, it's better to get it resolved than to run away from it with some new guy, however amazing or wonderful he is.
2007-03-19 11:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! My dad almost left my mother, his wife of 21 years, for a "lady in Africa" who turned out to be a fraud artist. My parents had four children together, including me. My siblings don't know it almost happened, but it destroyed my mother and me. My relationship with my father has never been the same and never will be. Don't do it....remember your wedding vows!! The emotional scars it would leave on both of you would stay forever.
If have to ask that question here, you know it's wrong.
2007-03-19 14:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Megan A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If the marriage is absolutely over to the point of no return, get a divorce first, then see what happens with this other guy. Otherwise, it's not worth the risk.
2007-03-19 11:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you and how you are comunating! If you can handle cheating on your husband, lying to him, and knowing that you are being a bad person then i wouldn't but if you can then there is another problem if you are talking on the phone I wouldn't do it, if you are emailing, texting, or like with a device then it could work, but if you are secreatly meating then I ABSOLOUTLY not do it!!!! So if you think that you can lie and cheat on your husband then go for it!!!!
Personly I wouldn't though!!
Don't leave the one you love
for the one you like because
the one you like will leave you
for the one they love!!
2007-03-19 11:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it thoroughly first!!!
Are doing the right thing? Do you think enough about this other to give it all up for him? Does he love you?
Think through all the practicalities before you do anything rash and your emotions run away with you.
Good luck and do the most sensible thing! .. not something you will regret!
2007-03-25 12:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..dont go for it..dont fall into fleeting spark then regret later. Its a very exciting feeling, but when the magic is gone you'll be left feeling guilty and no self respect..temporary, thats all it is-dont feel sorry in the end
2007-03-27 10:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by reigne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. you shouldnt do that, you are hurting your family at the expense of the fling.
2007-03-26 15:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by TO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋