I live in Alexandria,VA outside of DC and I go to Georgetown sometimes to shop at HM and to eat at this Italian resturant. I get stares from all of these white men and they wink there eyes and smile at me or say they would say "hey beautiful". I'll smile back but I find it odd that they wouls stare and smile but they would never ask me out. A black or hispanic man would be persesitant in trying to get my phone number and it seems that they are usually checking me out from up and down and saying stuff like "dang mami you got a nice body? or "dang you sexy mamicita"
2007-03-19 11:08:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Please Ladies: Fill me in on you experiences with this.
2007-03-19 11:12:07 · update #1
what is your real problem? There are psychologists that can help..............
2007-03-19 11:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Men in general have issues about approaching women. Color has nothing to do with it. They have a fear of rejection and I don't blame them with all the expectations women put on them. Just because one set of people are more vocal than the other doesn't mean they have more sense. Yes men look and grin and whistle and comment. This does not mean they necessarily want to get in your pants. There was a time when men approached us and dealt with the drama. Now they have choices. Most men are like women... they draw their own conclusions about who they want to be involved with. If he can't take you home to Mom... you ain't the one. Don't matter if your Black or White.
2007-03-20 08:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 02:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, interesting question.
It's not so much a person's race, but the environment they grew up in, that's causing these differences. I've met black men who act just like these white guys do, but usually it's because they were raised in the same type of environment. It's a cultural thing.
2007-03-19 11:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bishop 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are confusing aggressiveness with confidence, my dear. A lot of our males do not feel they need to be gentlemen, as all they want to do is score for a one night stand.
Besides, the White guys might only be trying to be nice, and are flirting with no downstairs business in mind.
2007-03-19 12:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by REV. JESSE LEE PETERSON 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i dont think it differs among race, its the people themselves.
i could be wrong, but it sounds like the later group just wants some ***, and theyre not afraid to ask
2007-03-19 11:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by squirrelman9014 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
doesn't seem like a confidence issue, it does sound like a manners issue. Maybe the white guys don't want to harass you.
2007-03-19 11:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by STFU 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Because white men don't consider getting MACE -d as part of foreplay.
2007-03-19 11:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Bernie Goetz 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
most white guys aren't looking for the one night stand so the motivation is different . not conquest ,but companionship
2007-03-19 11:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋
not sure but you sound hot
2007-03-19 11:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋