the only garenteed wht i *** is with water or looking at a flik ,,i hve not had had an orgam with penatration
2007-03-19 11:07:53 · 9 answers · asked by taz l 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Its actually common for women to experience this. I've been with many women who find it hard to do so from straight sex. Of course going down on them is a different story. A good example of this is when I am inside of my other half, generally speaking she takes care of herself while I'm on top of her, I usually am on my knees, with me holding her legs up while she does her thing. She almost always goes before me, I like it that way. Ladies first, right? Besides, I have the opposite problem of what alot of guys have in that I have no problem taking my time.
Try holding out for a while, and not watching any videos for a while. Wait a week or so, if thats too long, wait a few days. But you gotta wait long enough to where its like an uncontrollable urge you have that you need to get some. Then you might have an easier time getting off.
Best of luck...
2007-03-20 12:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a common problem. So, you shouldn't think this is unique. You need to develop a candid relationship with your gynecologist. He or she can help you deal with any physical problems. As far as penetration is concerned, you need to help your partner find a way to stimulate you to orgasm. Since many men don't understand that women do not reach orgasm as easily as men, you have to teach them. Extended foreplay is critical. Delay penetration until your desire reaches a peak. Keep in mind that pre-penetration activity can be very satisfying for many women. If you don't come every time, it isn't the end of the world, especially if you enjoyed the foreplay and the afterplay -- another thing you'll have to teach your male partners.
2007-03-19 11:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women need to be warmed up first. Fore-play is key. Also, make sure your guy doesn't change his pace when you start feeling hot. He must keep doing EXACTLY what he is doing when you feel an orgasm coming. Don't let him speed up, which is a man's natural tendency.
2007-03-21 23:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by quizzical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because you're not getting clitoral stimulation with penetration. That can be due to a poor or inexperienced partner.
2007-03-19 11:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Neil L 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to be relaxed. Right now you're probably worrying so much about it that its pretty much impossible. Also more stimulation, take time over it.
2007-03-19 11:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The majority of women don't have an orgasm through penetration alone.
2007-03-19 11:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by aqx99 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Check this out.
2007-03-19 11:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
bla bla bla go see a sex therapist
2007-03-19 11:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Rupert 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
that sucks. i dont know what to tell you. that sucks.
2007-03-19 11:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋