Well there's this guy I'm apprenhenive about. Well he works at my gym, and there was alot fliritng action going on.He gave me his number, and I called him and he told me that i was very attractive, and invited me to workout with him, and to attend church..and that if i ever wanted to go out too a movie or hang out to call him..so I called him, and we made plans but he ended up cancelling so we set it up for the following week..and oops again we ended up not going out once again..so then he tells me "He'll let me know when he is available" and I'm like okay..sothe following week we talk this is all by text messaging by the way and I tell him to call me..and he tells me he can't dial out. and to call him ..and so i call him and we talk for an hour. And I find out that he's 25 and he still lives at hom, hasn't had a girlfriend in six years..hasn't had sex in a year,hasn;t finished school, but oversees his family church that he's heavily involved in....so my question is what do you think
2007-03-19 11:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by Velinda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, as a christian, I would say what are you feelings for him and do you see a committed relationship in the future with him. Are you interested in a relationship that involves not only the two of you, but also a religion?
As a non-christian, I'd say no. He's already broken my trust (and I don't know him) by cancelling and not following through his word. It also sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do!
This sounds weird I know, but my advice is to be very cautious!
2007-03-19 11:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like hes to busy for you its not cool hes at home at 25 but he might have some good quality's especially with the whole church thing let him chase after you if you want to give him chance test him to see how interested he is in you if he wants to get to know you better, he will make in known by getting in contact with you .and why couldn't he dial out did he forget to pay his bill lol .anyways if he comes after you give him a chance .good luck
2007-03-19 18:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by kkwants to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry don't get involved with him he has not grown up and does not want to take responsibility for his life.You can do a lot better, Good luck.
2007-03-19 18:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by carpathian3030 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO Run! Block him, do anything to keep him from contacting you. Call the police if you have to.
2007-03-19 19:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Fl@$hy Wi$e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know what I think? Ok, don't walk away, RUN!!
2007-03-19 18:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree run and don't look back!!
2007-03-19 18:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Petra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋