So me and this girl I really like have been chatting on msn quite a bit the last while. Im actually thinking of asking her out soon. We get along amazing in person but I donno, I just have a hard time coming up with new topics to talk about, when we talk on msn. Like we'll talk about how our day went and new things going on, but then Itll end with a "lol" or something that we just cant keep working off of. Now I see alot of people say "just ask questions", well sorry to say it but no one wants to just be realxing infront of their computer having a great conversation and then "So what are your plans for next year?" If someone was to ask that in person while you were hanging out youd be like.... ya... ok.... thats weird. For those people who talk to their bf/gf on msn alot do you guys just talk and talk and talk? Or are those breaks in conversation for 5-10 minutes every now and then as you do something else online? Just wondering if its just me...
2007-03-19 10:59:56 · 5 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it could be that one or both of you are doing other things, or perhaps chatting with other people, while you're chatting with each other? that's pretty common. i think it's normal both in online conversations and phone conversations to have pauses here and there. i know it happens to me quite a bit b/c i'm not very talkative. part of that could be b/c i'm usually multitasking when i'm online and when i'm on the phone.
2007-03-19 11:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could talk to someone without any pauses on my part otherwise it means i am just busy. if you run out of things to talk about start doing crazy things for a while that you think would make her laugh then tell her about the stuff that you did, or mabe some fun things.
When you begin to run low on things to say i sugest that you start playing some games with her. keeping things busy is best.
if you dont have anything else to say than just tell her that you gotta go or something... or mabe finaly ask her out.
2007-03-19 11:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by ldsironman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 tip.
1.You dont need to talk her every day or so long time each time. tell her about this plm,chanses are big she feel the same as you, dont worry, in that way you have little slack for you and her.
2. dont think you can be intersting each day becuse you cant. relax.
2007-03-19 11:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by janne5011 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much. We girls drop our nail polish and never say a word about it!! Our dogs look so cute with that clip in their hair!! And, LIkEOhmYgoSh do those socks match in the daylight??? @80)
2007-03-19 11:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cherish the moose.
2007-03-19 11:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋