This last month for me has been so messed up, so much little things have happened that usually I'd cry over, and finally just about five minutes ago I've found out my boyfriends been cheating on me, it hurts so bad. I just feel so empty inside but I still can't cry. I need to cry, whats wrong with me....why wont it just let me ******* cry already it would make things so much easier...please help
2007-03-19 10:55:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The immediate reason might be emotional overload. Crying is an emotional expression, but is associated with physical pain or emotional hurt or grief.
It sounds like you haven't gotten over the shock of this most recent news. The shock is still effecting your behavior. Most people do not cry when they are shocked. Another issue is your anger. You are mad at him for the way he treated you. After the shock, you will need to deal with this anger.
In the meantime, the hurt will not go away. It will still be there for you to express later. If you work through the shock and anger, you will be able to express your hurt. If not, you will harden your heart and begin on the path to becoming an ice-lady, so that you cannot get hurt again.
2007-03-20 03:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
you're a tough girl.
maybe u can't cry because this guy ain't worth a *bleeppp bleepp insert curse here* for u. It's not worth to shed a tear for him. Or probabbly your relationship with him wasn't as serious in the first place. about the stuff that's been happening to u, well, in times we usually get used to it and doesn't impact so much on us anymore like how it used to.
seems like u've grown wiser and being able to confront your emotions better rather than hoping to cry. after crying it'll let lose of your deep anger but not all things are worth crying for.
2007-03-22 12:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by a y e z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O you'll cry, just give it sometime. Tears crave deep realizations, not just bad happenings. You have to have time to sit down and fully realize the feelings you have about this things before you'll be able to cry. Or if not give enough time it well caugh up with you and you'll find yourself crying "for no reason" ether way its coming....
2007-03-20 09:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he aint worth crying over~your instincts tell you to
move on and smile.
dont let this guy get any of your emotions.
Cheer up~~~more fish in the sea~
2007-03-20 10:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask god to give u a moral support to cry
2007-03-22 12:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by creativemh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋