He is my sis brother-in-law and I'm sure he likes me too, we have talked and seen each other for many years but his family wants him to marry his cousin and he never wanted to for many yrs, he was fine before but i know his mom did a dua on him (and I heard from others his own brothers/family too) cuz he is talking differntly then before and is talking to her and willing to marry her all of sudden now and doesnt want me to talk to him anymore. I know he never wanted to marry her and i really like him he is a good person and want to marry him, I seriously can't live without him. Does someone know what to read to get rid of the dua that was read on him, or something i can read cuz i really want to marry him. At least want to try before too late this summer!!
2007-03-19 10:53:34 · 3 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is my sis brther-in-law and I'm sure he likes me too, we have talked for several yrs and been out with each other few times but his family wants him to marry his cousin and he never wanted to for many yrs and said no. I know his mom did a dua on him (and I heard from his own brthers/family too) cuz he is talking differntly then before and is talking to her and willing to marry her all of sudden now and told me he doesnt want me to talk to him anymore. He never wanted her and i really like him he is a good person and want to marry him. We both are from a good family and good looking we can get anyone. I have alot feelings/love for him and I can't and wont think of letting anyone else come close to me ever. Does someone know what to read to get rid of the dua that was read on him or something i can read i really want to marry him. In summer, the cuzin/family is all moving here and will be 2 late (yes, i know whatever god wants will happen but ill try cuz I love him and believe in dua
2007-03-19 13:11:49 · update #1
salam alaykum, i never thought you're a woman, am i right? I answered your plea first in the email before i check what are your other interest and i am surprized to see what you are up to. Now i understand why you need it badly and i empatize with you. As far as i understand this, he was prayed over, a du'a, by his other relatives for the sudden change of personality.There is no black magic there, my dear sister, du'a's are supposed to be a plea to Allah for guidance, wisdom. I don't have any idea about your culture but most likely, it has something to do with his abrupt "change of mind?" We can't do anthing to get rid of that du'a, it is not a spell, hex, or any black magic done over him. ..Aren,t you allowed to a polygamous marriage? it would be more pleasing to Allah, All of you doing things in the service of Allah.....Since you've stated he is such a good man, i deemed it in his best criteria he have to marry his cousin for a more stable family relationships, his decision is for the welfare of all eventhought how much you loved each other or get along well, you understand that, do you? Yes, you do.
If you really love him, let go, don't make drastic actions which may be regretable. If he did not come back to you, it was never meant to be,insha allah.....I'll include you in my prayers for your guidance and the best for you.You'll get more than what you'll pray for the sacrifice you did for Allah.Wasalam!
2007-03-21 21:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOO much dysfunctional drama!!!!! You CAN seriously LIVE without him!!!! For whatever reason, dude TOLD you to leave him alone - he comes from a very messed up family which means he is pretty messed up too. There is no way he can be anything but messed up. Now let's look at YOU - are you seriously messed up too?? You claim to love this guy - I doubt it - I doubt either of you really knows what love is. You DO know pity is - jeez girl, get the heck away from this mess and get yourself a good counselor - two wrongs never make things right.
2007-03-19 18:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out girl go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 17:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by brownsuagr569 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋