2007-03-19 10:38:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'd definitely tell my younger self that it's ok to feel like you do and to try and talk to someone about it*, and not deny your true self for .. ahem.. more years than I care to mention!
*meaning trans in my case
2007-03-19 11:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by EmmaJNation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, There are people I would avoid, such as getting involved with a couple of my ex-boyfriends, I'd have myself avoid certain jobs that were nothing but misery in the end, and I'd give him the information to find my current Significant other just so we would have even more time to have spent together.
Info on strictly Gay stuff? It would still g back to a few dates that I have had and would have just avoided completely. Nothing but misery involved in them.
2007-03-19 11:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First piece of suggestion, kiddo, is relax. Take a Xanax and relax. do no longer ignore that you're 13. you've your entire life prior to you and there'll be lots of possibilities for you to be targeted on romantic relationships. in simple terms concentration on the time accessible, end annoying about your lack of love life, benefit from the time that you've unmarried (believe me, get excitement from it), and be affected individual. All issues of their time, which signifies that looking love will ensue even as it really is meant to ensue. If all this sounds cliche, then oh nicely----it really is the actuality.
2016-11-26 23:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My younger self knew on some level about people who were gay. I was going to grow up to marry my cousin or my step-brother - both are gay and I love them dearly.
2007-03-19 10:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Aileen C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my 16 year old self that everything was going to be fine and NOT to get married.
I would also mention that a certain football player IS GAY and that I should not refuse his request for a date in fear he is setting me up. (something I learned for sure several years after graduation).
2007-03-19 10:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love the "what if" scenieros.
I would go back and tell myself at 15 that its perfectly normal, and hang on. also get to the gym earlier ;) and not to give up on college, long story.
But has to change anything, unfortinatly no, they made me who iam today. Yes theres one thing in my life that i would change but it would effect the rest of my life and the things ive done since high school, while in and after college made me and i dont think i could imagine living with out those experinces.
2007-03-19 11:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Prometheus Cowboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Great question. I'd let myself know that life does get better. I'd tell myself to take more chances, like making out with that cute guy at prom when he wanted to (god was I dumb !) I'd tell myself not to expect to change the world overnight. I tell myself to invest in Apple computers, Oracle and Google ! Geez I could go on and on....
2007-03-19 10:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Telemachus R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely convince myself to come out a lot earlier and a lot less fearful than i did. I came out when i was 22 (last year) and i lived for 5 years leding a double life. It was extremely stressful & unnecessary.
2007-03-19 10:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell myself not to worry about how others thought of me and to be honest about my sexuality. Everyone now knows I am gay and I don't have any problems.
2007-03-19 23:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my 5 years old self that it's OK to masturbate at that age, because now I've met so many people that did that at that age.
2007-03-24 20:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋