How do i get him to understand?

Question

I have dated my best friend (blake) like 10 times...and the last time he asked me out..i told him that i don't think it is really a good idea that we keep breaking up then going back out becuase everytime we go out it always never lasts that long. and i don't wanna ruin our friendship becuase of that. I told him i thought of him as more of like a brother and that i really think we should keep it that way...i also said that i really reallly like my ex (glenn) still. Blake keeps asking me out and i don't know how to get him to understand that i don't wanna go out with him..cause it always seems to cause problems and as i said i don't wanna ruin our friendship.
How do i get him to understand this?

Answer 1

guys never want to hear that u think of them like a brother. That would be like incest. You need to tell him that all you want to do is be friends and that if he liked u he would respect you and leave u alone.