Bisexual??? are sooooooooo confused. Do u think they should make up their minds??

Question

I do i think they should and stop playing around with people..,..

and you cant say both. (ex: but we get the both of both worlds that whay, or i could cause im a bisexual)

Answer 1

Lol. I think bisexuality is great for those who truly feel attraction for both AND if they are HONEST with whomever they are with. Now i refuse to date a bi girl because I prsonally dont like wondering when the day will come when she needs to run off and have sex with a man!! But that's just my preferences. But bisexuality is here to stay, and as long as they're happy & honest....just let them be.

Answer 2

Well, there are indeed people who are attracted to both sexes. It could be for many reasons. One being, what someone else lacks, the other may have either guy or girl. It could be people really like something about a person's personality that draws them in rather it be a guy or girl. There's a chemistry there they want to pursue rather it be guy or girl. Everyone has different taste whether straight, gay, or bisexual. If marriage was an issue, I feel they can sort out who indeed would make a better life partner for them.




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Answer 3

Well, they just like both. But I agree with you that it's best to go one way or the other. Sometimes I think bisexuals don't live in reality when it comes to lasting relationships. Bisexuals do well if they keep it all on a sexual level. I think if you want to develop long-term, loving, commited relationships and grow with a person, then monogamy is the only way to do it. Besides, not too many people will get serious and plan a future with a person who wants "the best of both worlds!" You eventually have to go one way or the other - you can't have both because no partner is going to share their lover in a serious relationship. I think bisexuals end up discovering that for themselves. Bisexual girls often give up men when they fall in love with a woman, and bi guys can go one way if they fall in love, too. Sometimes their attractions for both are not very strong, and they can live without one of them. The weaker ones cheat.

Answer 4

Personally, for me it isn't what is between the legs. It isn't just a sexual thing either, I see the term 'Bisexual' as a person who is capable of having physical, romantic, and sexual attraction towards both sexes, but not necessarily to the same degree.

As for making your mind up, some people see themselves as being open to different types of partners, their minds made up, simple. It doesn't mean people are sexually confused or anything.

Also bisexuals are not all promiscuous vampires :)

Answer 5

I've already answered another question of yours about bisexuals. I had hoped I would have educated you a little bit and you might have opened your mind.

I am bisexual, and you better believe I am not confused. I know what I like, adn I can't make up my mind any more than you can make up yours about being a lesbian. I don't play around with people; I'm honest and up-front about who I am and what I want out of a relationship.

Please look past your own experiences and stop making assumptions and overgeneralizations about bisexuals.

Answer 6

To me, bisexuals don't really care about gender. What attracts them to a person the most is their energy. Bisexuals aren't hurting anybody, they just choose to focus on the inside instead of the outside.

No, I do NOT think bisexuals are confused. They aren't sluts, they don't 'play around with people' .They are just free spirited.

Answer 7

As far as I'm concerned, bi means I find beauty in both the male and female forms. Speaking for myself, I am extremely loyal and don't cheat. I don't pick up one-night-stands from bars and keep very high standards for the people I date because I demand high standards from myself.

Answer 8

gee, you seem to have fallen prey to the societal myths of bisexuals. not all bisexuals are polygamous.

bisexuality simply means a potential to be attracted to males and females. it doesn't necessarily mean "must have sex with everybody all the time"

as far as confusion, the only people who are confused are those who believe that everybody should be straight.

Answer 9

you can love 2 things I love men and women I have my boyfriend and potentialy my girlfriend its not playing around with people its liking both its enjoying the strong caress of a man and the gentle sensual curves of a woman what you cant like 2 flavors of ice cream and put them togeather i think ben and jerrys would go out of business lol

Answer 10

honestly, no. that's why it's called bisexual. i like men. i like women. and i don't play with anyone's feelings. for me it's not even about the label. it's about who i'm attracted to. love has no labels...do they?