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im 17 and will i was with my ex i got pregent and
im scared if i tell my bf he will dumb me
i lost it but still scared he will dumb me if i told him
2007-03-19 10:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How do you dumb someone.Is it sexual.
2007-03-19 10:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you got way more serious problems than your current boyfriend dumping you.
First of all, you desperately need to improve your spelling if you want anyone to take your question seriously - if you don't make the effort to express yourself clearly, why should anyone else make the effort to give you a helpful answer?
More importantly, you need to ask yourself why you are having sex if you're not willing to be responsible about it. Go to Planned Parenthood, get some birth control pills and condoms, and think twice about what - and who - you're doing before you do it.
It's unclear whether you got pregnant while you were still with your ex, or while you were cheating on your current boyfriend with your ex. If this was before you met your current boyfriend, then there's no real reason for him to get mad, it was just a mistake you made in the past.
If you were cheating on him when it happened, then yes, he has every right to be upset and probably will dump you. However, this might be a good thing for you in the long run, if you embrace it as an opportunity for self-improvement, work on improving your self-respect and maturity, finish school, and decide what you really want out of life.
2007-03-19 10:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such a personal issue. I think you should think seriously about how close you are with your boyfriend and if that is something you really want him to know. I will admit that, if I was in your position, I wouldn't tell him. I just don't think I'd like him to know such an intimate issue in my life unless I feel I could spend my life with him. Considering you're only 17, I doubt you feel or will always feel like that with him.
2007-03-19 10:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Caribbean Belle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him. Find somebody who won't get you pregnant when he's not married to you.
But don't rush into a new relationship; you have a lot of emotional issues to deal with first. A boyfriend you don't have confidence in, pregnancy, losing the baby.... That's a lot.
2007-03-19 10:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean dump? Cause if you do then if he does then he isn't in it for love! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-19 10:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by jacks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋