2007-03-19 10:13:23 · 42 answers · asked by B crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
depends on what she did to you!!
2007-03-19 10:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by *BiTTeR sWeeT* 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You do not need to do anything dear Heart. Just ignore her and get on with your life. Revenge never brings anything positive because then the other person might reciprocate and make your life more miserable. You may be lonely now, but think about what a war between you and your ex best friend could do to you! Of course you need to think of forgiving along the way, and once you have done that ( truly and sincerely) you will be able to detach from the situation and enjoy your life with someone new and a whole new circle of friends. You will not be lonely anymore! Words get around about revenge and I believe it is better to turn your back on that kind of behavior, be charming and smiling, concentrate on something else that has nothing to do with this person and you will soon realize that she is not around anymore! And of course, you will have been wiser and smarter than she. Kindness is very powerful as you probably know! If you don't; you have nothing to loose in trying it!
Courage and wisdom to you.
GBY
2007-03-19 10:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Revenge only feels good in the moment, but it stays with you rest of your life, and it no longer feels so good.
Your feelings must be really hurt or you would not want revenge. I suggest you do something really nice for yourself and take good care of yourself especially while you are healing your hurt feelings.
Then go out and find a best friend that will never put you in this position. If she did something that hurt you this much, she was not as BEST a friend as you thought.
2007-03-19 10:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by siddoly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is NOT sweet. It will haunt you all your life. you should NOT hate like this, it only causes YOU harm, no body else. Put her in the past and move ahead, be a GOOD person. If you MUST have revenge here it is... Strive to be better than her, rise above anything she has done to you make everyone around you proud of you and be proud of yourself. and THAT will be your revenge , because she WILL one day find out how well you have done without her "friendship" Good luck!
2007-03-19 10:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow-up, get a life, and then move on with your life. Life is way too short to waste time hating someone and plotting revenge. Sometimes the absolute best revenge is letting them see how well you are doing without them.
Move on!
2007-03-19 10:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by b44z 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Learn to let things go. It's not for her sake, but for yours. She has already done the damage, so why keep focusing on it? Be the bigger person and let it go. Anyone can seek revenge and get down to the other person's level. It takes a very strong, mature, and unique individual to move on. Believe me I could write the book on wrongs that have occurred in my own life. So much so that it seems unbelieveable. Sadly, its not. Yet, I chose to be the bigger person and forgive and forget. Funny thing is, those people eventually got their just rewards, but not by my hands, and that is the way it should be.
2007-03-19 10:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Singthing 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess the whole thing depends on what she did and how bad you would like to get revenge on her?? First let me say this....And I am serous about this....Be nice to her....I mean be REAL nice, she will think that you have got something going on. It will get to the point that she will go to mutual friends and ask them what is going on...I have done this in the past with a few co-workers, it seems to do the job...If not just smile at her one day and say "I'm praying for you".....She will not have a clue what to say then, and you didn't even have to break any laws.....Good Luck
2007-03-19 10:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ted 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget about it and move on. Living well is the best revenge. She'll see that it didn't phase you at all and it'll make her nuts AND the other people will know what she did (they'll hear about it even if you don't tell a lot of people) and you'll come out looking like the cool one.
2007-03-19 10:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge only hurts you, by making you as bad as the person you are trying to get revenge on! What kind of person are you choosing to be??? Wake UP!
2007-03-19 10:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge is to act normal and continue to do the things you used to do. She will wonder what is going on and be asking others about you. Your silence is the best revenge!
2007-03-19 10:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you live in a town were the Mexicans stand on the corner in the morning looking for work? And does your friend have a house? If so go get some shovels and about 5 Mexicans take them to your friends house when they are not there and tell them to remove all the grass. Let them know you will pay when they are done. Then leave and do not return. Let your friend come home and deal with it.
2007-03-19 10:19:43 · answer #11 · answered by dialtone 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋