is it wrong that I want to be with a MAN. I mean with a real man. I am not talking about sex NO NO. I am talking about the man who be there for me. us a women. I deserve to be with man who loves me and respect me and be there for me. makes me fell he wants me. IS it wrong... I am 21 years. I m engage to a man who I toughs he was a man. but I find out that he just needed someone to help him out with bills and stuff. its a long story . but I know beep down hes not the one I supposed be with. We are getting married in July. I don't think its ganna happened. .. my family had a problem we lost all the money we saved for years. and all my other two sister husband been there with my father and mother. and my fiance Its like nothing happened. he never spend money on me. when we go out he only asked me to go to the move so he cant spend more then 10 dollars. telling u this, I don't care about money In fact I have a job that I earn money from and I don't need anyone to give me nothing.. I was
2007-03-19 10:08:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The first thing you need to do is understand why you think you should still be with him? I mean not a single good word, your scared of marring him, and seems he doesn't know compassion better yet how to spell it. Ether way you know thy self good enough to feel that you deserve more, now act like you deserve more. Talk to him about what you want and what you need tell he does it or you break him away from you. Then if he doesn't shape up (which he most likly will not) treat yourself from now on like you care about yourself and stay away from them boys.
PS. Were all males just some of us stand for something (man) and some of us stand for not a thing (boyz). Make sure next time that your male has got a purpose you can admire. Not just a package, you can call your own....
2007-03-20 03:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋