Hey all,
Ok...there is this guy in my univ. that i know, we basicly "know" each other, where we are from... stuff like that. I have a crush on him since we first met (dec' 06). But i dont know if he is interested. He constantly stares at me, but when i start up a conversation, he just kinda answers my question or replies but never takes it furthur. He constantly tries to sit pretty close to where i sit in class. I mean i noticed he doesnt talk to a lot of girls but see....i am also pretty shy near guys, and expecially when i work up that courage and start the conversation, and if he doesnt take it furthur...i kinda feel put down. I just feel that when u are not interested...why give clues (staring). He recently found out where i park and that is exactly where he also started parking his car. ....i mean is there something going on or ...am i over thinking it?...or should i just forget everthing and give up.. plezzzzz help!!!
2007-03-19 10:06:03 · 3 answers · asked by Tommy Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should someday kinda joking-ly when he looks at you ask if something is on ur face. and most guys will come back and say no i was just staring at ur beaty or something and thats how u can tell!.GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-19 10:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kinda like me and my husband. When we first met, it was my first day at this new job. He kept staring at me throughout our meeting and even I can't tell you what was said. We started talking, but nothing ever went further. It took him about 4 months before he asked me out and now we have been married for almost 2 years. Every minute has been awesome. I think there might be something to this. The only way to find out is to be open and honest and ask him how he feels. If he just wants to be your friend, that's good too, because by being my husbands friend back then, it let me into his life in a way I might not have been able to. If I were you, I would feel it out and stop being so shy. Ask him.
2007-03-19 17:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by bamagurl722 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kind of sounds like two of a kind have met here. Assuming both are probably shy, each is afraid to make the move that would get this started. This is going to come down to who is shier and who is going to get brave to push this farther. Something or someone is going to have to break this stalemate or it just might be lost forever. There is no reason taht prohibits you from making that first push if youre willing. Go for it and find out. Good luck
2007-03-19 17:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋