This is not my beautiful life!?

Question

If not, why not?

To elaborate:
If you think your life isn't what you wanted, why is this the case? I've done a follow up question that needs answering too... Change your ugly life...

Answer 1

Trust me, I know just how you feel. Keep in mind that life is what you make it. You probably want to have all the money, friends, etc.. Even those celebrities that have what you think is "everything" isn't happy with at least two things. Sometimes, they personally wish they can return to their boring, old life. What you can do if you're that desperate is: create new schedules, find something different to do once every couple of months, go to new places, etc.. You might want to give it a try before you complain. Nobody, I repeat nobody has a "perfect" life!!!

Answer 2

I feel in some situations that I don't deserve this from life I don't really know but I think life will not change itself to give us more happiness or to be more beautiful but if we want to be more happy we have to start a new way of thinking and we have to see things from different point that we are not used to

Answer 3

Does God dream? Maybe whatever we had, we would always want something else, hence Paradise Syndrome. Maybe we are hardwired to always want what we do not have, no matter that what we have may be considered the most desirable thing in this world at this time. It's probably part of our neurological set up left over from many tens of thousands of years ago to want, or at least consider, what we don't have in comparison to what we now possess and this feeling probably gets exaggerated in this society like the ability to imagine something larger than us in order to avoid predators is exaggerated into religion. It will never truly be my beautiful life because I am hard wired to want something else. QED.

Answer 4

maybe because we don't get every thing we want from life otherwise , we wouldn't be suffering from anything ... there must be something missing like all the time ... if we find the one ,we lack money and if we have both we may be deprived from kids blablabla .... in addition to this , we never seem to be satisfied , that's a human nature ..every time we get something we start asking for something else ... furthermore , i truely think that these harsh circumstances of life make us happier mainly because it makes us appreciate what we have already ... that's why the next time you start complaining

Answer 5

Chosing the right woman is important - your beautiful life can get very ugly with the wrong woman.

Answer 6

Chuck the hand in and see what the next one brings, or..play the cards you're dealt. The perfect life is what other people seem to have, they don't of course, the grass is always greener!

Answer 7

i agree with the first person who answered life is what u make and i think the better way of me sayin it is this is not my beautiful person,i noticed that i do everythin wrong,i enjoy doin the wrong things,i get so stubborn with people who loves and care for me and i have no idea why i do this

Answer 8

No, it can't be.
Presumably because you're still looking for your beautiful wife, beautiful house and your beautiful automobile.

Try letting the days go by instead... :D
(you may ask yourself, 'why do so few YA posters have Talking Heads?')

Answer 9

life it's self is beautiful, it's the crap that governments do that make it very frustrating and of course there are a lot of nasty people out there.
but equally there is a lot of good too

Answer 10

Do what you have to do. See a Counselor, take meds as prescribed, take part in things that you enjoy, and have a good circle of friends who you can trust. Be nice to yourself.