i fell out with my friend a few years ago and dont know if i should ring her or not. We were really good friends and we fell out over something stupid, but nether of us wanted to make the first move to apologise and now its been over two years since we spoke. Is it too late to try and make up?
2007-03-19 09:20:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No I just went throught this exact situation. It's never too late for a true friend. After 3 years, my friend and I made up. Still isn't the same yet, but we are working on it. It may be uncomfortable at first, but your friends are important and obviously she still means something to you. I bet she would be glad to hear from you too.
2007-03-19 09:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you are both stubborn... obviously it wasn't something so stupid to keep you both apart for 2 years. After this long neither of you will ever see each other the same way or will have the same trust.
I would recommend you move on and make new friends. Old friends last forever. If you really think is worth it, give her a call and stop hesitating about it.
Good Luck.
2007-03-19 16:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ring her to see how the land lies but i would say that if you have both managed two years without each other then you won't be the same friends that you used to be!
But it is always worth a try - what have you got to lose?
2007-03-19 19:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have the same situation. i fell out of friends when i got married. now i came back into my senses. i contacted a few friends like nothing happened. but i didn't have any argument with them or anything, we just stopped contacting each other. so now we re back together. so just do it. maybe she wants to contact u too.
2007-03-19 16:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she lives far away
i would not call.
wait until you bump into her somewhere then
make the first move.
If my friend that i not spoke to for several years just rang up out the blue
i would think
"oh so her life is so boring ......Now she wants to make back friends with me uh! :-)
2007-03-19 16:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by magic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must, & I did not speak for two years. Then she text me just before I was about to chnage my mobile number - fate! She lives about an hour away, but I have her email, telephone number we meet up every few weeks. Do it - life is too short!
2007-03-19 17:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its worth a try. I didnt speak to my friend for only 2 mths and when we made up it has never been the same again...The closeness has gone...shame really. Good luck in what you decide, tread cafefully its been a long time.
2007-03-19 16:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way call her in this world you need all the friends you can get and if she is a true friend then shes probly thinking about the same thing good luk
2007-03-19 16:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by i wnt a bf who dnt cheat or lie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never to late, Call her up! You may be missing out.
2007-03-19 16:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never too late to try. give it a shot, if she feels the same things will work out, if not, at least you will not feel guily or the "what if " question. Blessings!!
2007-03-19 16:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by Li7078 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋