2007-03-19 09:19:34 · 14 answers · asked by imani_07_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES!
2007-03-19 09:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A common practice for hoochies with issues to seek out male companions and claim there's no sex. Men want sex even if they're just so-called friends they want sex, hubby knows this and it has become an issue for you two. You're either devoted and married or married in an Open Relationship but can't have both.
Let hubby come home with a smile on his face and claim he has a gf as a companion but there's no sex involved and you'll see for yourself, unless you're truly broad minded and accepting, that you're not so comfortable with the idea of there being another lady in his life. That you mention the word wrong seems to indicate that there is more to this than meets the eye so maybe you really don't want to be married?
2007-03-19 16:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now here's an interesting question with tons of people who'll no doubt quip you about being morally suspect and wrong. IF you know going in that no line sexually is to be crossed, then I must ask why it would be wrong. Obviously, I don't think it is, but the answer is that everyone buying into the "socially" accepted norm will think it's wrong.
The REAL answer about whether or not it's wrong can only be decided between you and your husband. IF you can be totally honest with your husband about your friend, or the friend you want, and he doesn't have a problem then neither do you since you're the one seeking the friend. BUT, if you have to hide it from your husband, then not only is it wrong to him, but ultimately it's wrong to you also.
2007-03-19 16:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Crash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Why do you want male companionship anyway? Don't you already have a man. Are you trying to manipulate some free drinks or sympathy or get someone jealous?
2007-03-19 16:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you think it won't lead to sex you are nuts. Why not work as hard trying to find a male companion , with your own husband. If people would work with their mate half as hard as trying to have and affair and hiding it they would still be in love.
Try it you will be glad you did. Another man is not the answer.
2007-03-19 16:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...your husband should be your best friend, talk to him first!
A male companionship will eventually LEED to something you may regret in the future!
2007-03-19 16:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by frank b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are married & lonely, it would be very wrong and would you want ypu hubby to seek out the company of a woman? Hmmmmm.
2007-03-19 16:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you see it wrong, if your husband was a married woman's companion? Remember you get out what you put into the marriage.
2007-03-19 16:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong at all. I have a few friends I go out with and they are all women. I enjoy their company without the stress of a serious realationship involved.
2007-03-19 16:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What!........a shoulder to lean on what wrong with that specially if you and your husband aren't really seeing eye to eye on certain things and you like to talk about it instead of holding it in. Of course it okay to have a good male Friend who willing to lead a ear for you. If you cant find one you can email me.
2007-03-19 16:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as everything is secure within your own marriage, there's nothing wrong with having male friends. Would you be okay with your husband having female friends?
2007-03-19 18:06:57 · answer #11 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋