Let me clarify im a teen and if u think that this doesnt matter bc of it just dont leave a reply plz ty
but ive liked this girl for a few months; we went out for like a month; my best friend started to incessantly flirt with her and that eventually caused her to have a crush on him, then she broke up w/me, but then my best friend invited her to the movies and made out w/her... what can i do?
and now he has moved on to my other best friend's crush and has started flirting with her, now hating the girl i like (and now im supporting her in her time of need) so wat should i Do?
2007-03-19 09:18:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't let her use you, kick her to the curb. And your friend is probably jealous of you for doing you like that. Jealousy is worse than hate. Don't take sloppy seconds...you deserve better!
2007-03-19 09:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Shanetta W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a teen, right? Well walk away from the whole scene. This is a behavior pattern that is not right. This could become a habit in your life. Get out of that "used," "cheated on" and "sucker" role, faster then you got into it.
When you are young, your only responsability is to yourself, to get through school and to respect your parents.
Walk away. Look at these postings, people who are 10 and 20 years older than you have so much pain in their souls about this kind of garbage.
--- except they have children, jobs and a house-payments. This pattern is present in people's lives, and it can become a way of thinking. People can and do change, but spare yourself the pain and heartache.
Don't start on that train. Start over, find new friends while you are young and still can.
2007-03-19 09:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by poweranni 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldnt have anything to do with either of them.
They both hurt you. You need to have enough respect for yourself to know you deserve better than that.
If you want to console her thats your choice but i hope you arent doing it in hopes of getting her back. Whats happens when the next cute buddy you have comes along and smiles at her or flirts?
As far as your friend...he isnt a friend... he is a piece of crap and isnt worthy to be around you...you deserve better. Seems he has a habit of this.... so cut your losses and find a better crowd of friends sweetie....good luck!!
2007-03-19 09:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by bigmommy240 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the jerk is getting what he deserved!! Dont' worry about it anymore! Sure, he got to make out with your girl and now hates her, well guess what? SHE HATES HIM, TOO! She sees that you were there, now probably feels stupid enough. Your friend will eventually turn enough girls against himself that he won't have anymore make out partners. Just sit back and watch him self-destruct. Good luck! ;)
2007-03-19 09:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Katalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. leave ur girl alone. She fell in love with ur best friend and made out with her. do u want ur friends to say, eww i had her first and her lips and are u kissing what i had already kissed. And this girl didnt reali truly love u beacuse she went for that guy that truly isnt ur best friend either.
2007-03-19 09:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by ohitsyou(= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is trying tobe a player,i dont think he should be ur friend,freinds dont take friends crushes,or flirt or anything with em,tell the girls he a player and he just want to use em,dont be his friend unless ya'll like playing with girls,support the girl,shes is still ur friend right?well hope this sorta helps,but in my opinion guys who trys to get every girl and hurt em is a discrace to guys because when the nice right guy comes shes hurt to even belive him,and etc.so good luck,later
2007-03-19 09:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Antonio R. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It looks like good information for the main section. yet you mustn't date a guy who purely dates you "you're warm." additionally, tell him as much as you prefer, yet be careful, by way of fact in the event that they are friends, he's probable telling your overwhelm each and every little thing.
2016-12-15 03:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!! That is NOT YOUR FRIEND>>>PERIOD
I know what you are thinking..SHould you still want her now after she did this. Everyone make mistake and she was played..dont hold that again her.
that dude is a pro and she fell for it...as long they did not have sex
2007-03-19 09:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Princess AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls will come and go...real friends don't and there's tons of fishies in the sea my friend!!!
2007-03-19 09:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by baby jo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dump all those peps
2007-03-19 09:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Amber H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋