2007-03-19 09:16:34 · 23 answers · asked by MRS. EDWARD FINEX 1 AND ONLY!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her. Honesty is always your best policy. ALWAYS!!!
2007-03-19 09:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pups 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IS THERE A WAY? Why in the heck would you miss your best friend's little cousin's funeral? A funeral isn't just a party... it's a FUNERAL! A PERSON ONLY HAS ONE! But if you really feel that you think your friend will forgive you, be honest and apologetic. Remember, a good apology doesn't come with an EXCUSE attached.
2007-03-19 16:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Katalina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like you just said it. If you were really doing something that couldn't keep you from going then what else could you have done. Now if it was your best friend's mom or dad then You would have a lot of explaining to do as her best friend. I really do think she would understand. Just be honest and tell her why. Most people can't handle funerals at all, but some we must attend.
2007-03-19 16:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you just have to say it. It's hard going to funerals. I take them pretty hard sometimes. If it were my best friend i would try to go though to help her through. I lost two of my family members at once in an accident and every one around me freaked out. My friends seemed to not want to come around because they were unsure of what to say. There is really nothing you can say. Just be there for them is all. Maybe even if you can't go to the funeral you can still be there for your friend though. Sorry for your friends loss.
2007-03-19 16:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to your friend why you didn't go to her cousin's funeral. Tell her how sorry you are for her loss and that you wanted to be there for her. Let her know that you're there for her now.
2007-03-19 16:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your reason. I had been blowing my best friend since high school off because I honestly thought that she would look down on my little house compared to the big one she had but I finally told her the truth & it turns out I was worried for nothing & she being the better friend than I was understood. Sometimes people make mistakes
2007-03-19 16:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and talk to her and see if she answers, if she doesn't you know its because of your situation so i suggest waiting until she talks to you and then thats when you tell her thats shes sorry and she may forgive you if she doesn't though then just write her a letter and post it to her house saying "im sorry i didn't get the chance to go to your cousins funeral, and im sorry that he has died"
I'm sorry that your cousins died and i mean it, mine died a couple of months ago.
2007-03-19 16:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all i want to ask you where you were at the time?
Because if it was like you didn't feel like goin and u just didn't go then it would be pretty hard for you
but,
if it was like an important thing came up and you had to go and you missed it then just explain to her what the thing was and just talk to her.
talking about things always help you kno
2007-03-19 16:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kristy H. Lor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain why you truly did not go. The truth, and then sit with them and have a coffee. Talk about all the positive things you can remember about that little one. RIP, whomever he is. It is sad for such a young live to dissappear. Sorry to hear that.
2007-03-19 16:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by James 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see your friend and apologize in person. IF you have a legitimate excuse that should be okay....if you excuse is not a good one, expect some coolness.
It is very important to be honest and regretful that you did not pay your respects and were not their to support your friend in a time of need.
2007-03-19 16:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by united9198 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why did you not go? If you were close to your best friends cousin and it was just too hard to be there, then tell he/she that. Honesty is best!
2007-03-19 16:20:10 · answer #11 · answered by Bunny83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋