Should I tell my Assistant Principal that I hate her?
I graduated already
I already have my diploma
I have my cards already
I hate her because she is homophobic and didn't handle school situations well.
Should I tell her?
whats the worse she can do?
Im deciding to tell her through a letter.
2007-03-19 08:23:50 · 13 answers · asked by abner_renba 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Why bother? Do you really think she'll care? Do you really care what she thinks? If you are already out of the school, skip it. If it really bothers you, and you feel that you want to let somebody know of the AP's shortcomings, then write a letter to the superintendent. As a former teacher, I can't tell you how many times I told kids, "I could care less if you like me. I'm here to give you an education, not to find a new best friend." So the adults really don't care if you like them. Telling her you hate her would be a waste of time. Tell someone higher up-chances are, someone will speak to her about it, and she'll know then.
2007-03-19 08:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by recreationalhousewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go ahead and do this...she probably has heard it before, many times.
What you have to ask yourself is whether or not it really will do any good, and whether or not you truly want to hurt her feelings?
Contrary to popular belief, many teachers/principals in high schools truly care for their students, and what can be intrepreted as heavy-handedness in reality is the 'tough love' that goes with educating students.
Maybe what would be more productive would be to write her a letter, explain to her why you felt she was homophobic, and in detail (in a rational manner) explain the situations you felt she didn't handle well. This, in turn, might allow her to improve her style of leadership for future students at your school.
One of the worst jobs in the world is HS Assistant Principal. Dealing with disicpline issues all day every day can wear on you really fast. When I was teaching HS, I thought about going into administration for about 2 seconds, until I saw what assistant principals had to put up with. Not a good life.
So, consider things carefully before making your decision.
2007-03-19 08:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Robert N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its best that you anger cool down a little bit, by telling her that you hate her it will get worse, its not worth it. She might be homophobic but you know Karma exist, if you hate somebody, you will end up in your next life be the person that you hate in the other life. Trust me, you are now free from her and you will never going to see her again. Besides she's a homophobic, lazy *****. In her next life its going to suck big time. Good luck!!!
2007-03-19 08:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abner:
Is it really that important? It would appear that you came out on top in that you achieved your diploma. You did your best and perhaps she is at her best. If you want to do something then why not keep with you the example that she left you with as a reminder not to ever represent her style when you are working to obtain your personal goals in the future. You would be a better person for it.
Be the example that others would want to follow.
Respectfully,
2007-03-19 08:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write a letter but leave out the hate part and explain that you didn't like the way she handled things and support it with the reasons why, it sounds like you want to have her listen., and starting out with I hate you won't accomplish that, if you want to really be heard, why not cc the school board......good luck.....sounds like you need to get it off your chest, just do it in a grown up way.......!!!!
2007-03-19 08:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think you should waste time hating this person. If she is a homophobic, telling her about your feelings will not change her viewpoints. Try to get past your feelings for this person by focusing on enjoying your own life.
2007-03-19 08:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not. Granted, I would probably try to sound as mature and professional as possible (not use the word hate)You want to be taken seriously. Maybe consider writing to the school district.
2007-03-19 08:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in a mature way and leave the hate part out she really needs to know so that hopefully she can change because i am sure you are not the only one who feels that way about her.
2007-03-19 08:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by juju_2978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell the principal!
2016-03-29 06:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think she would even care? why bother? if you really hate her, you should just be really glad that you don't have to ever see again since you've graduated from school. i mean, why waste your time and effort on someone you hate?
2007-03-19 08:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋