How do I keep older men from hitting on me? I'm only 20 and I'm being hit on by guys who are either 10 years older or double and it creeps me out. I don't wear clothes that are revealing and I'm almost the opposite of feminine(20% fem/ 80% mas). I don't do anything that would attract a normal guy; please help me.
2007-03-19 08:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I know they don't feel sorry for me; because I act and think maturely. I mean; I have confidence in myself. I just don't like old guys wanting to tap my @ss.
2007-03-19 08:25:16 · update #1
Most likely you have something that attracts older men, like a very clear vision of yourself and who you are, or great determination, or unusual maturity beyond your age. Also they may feel comfortable around you for some reason. Possibly you could consider it a compliment, otherwise, if they are hitting on you in ways that make you uncomfortable, you could actually probably stop it by going more feminine and sexy and going more in the direction of girls your age, and then they would feel much more nervous approaching you.
2007-03-19 08:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by sam_alot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's the confidence that a women exudes and older men tend to be attracted to confident women. Sometimes, you being yourself (not doing anything) may trigger that spark becoz they feel that you do not have any airs about yourself or trying hard to impress/be somebody else. Being au naturel means you're comfortable with who you are which means, you're a confident women. It's something like an xfactor and it's hard to get rid of. Behaving and dressing maturely will be another factor as well. I think most mature men find mature, and intelligent women sexy. While there are some who likes the plain exterior but has the impression that she's wild behind closed doors. Or they're just a bunch of desperados, either that or just maybe, you're just so damn hot that whatever you wear will look just as hot. *shrugs*
2007-03-19 15:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by faith 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you can stop older men from hitting on you. Maybe you project a mature attitude. I wouldn't change anything if I were you. Try not to be bothered by them hitting on you. Just tell them that you're not interested. If they keep bothering you, kick them in their family jewels.
2007-03-19 15:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them, they will get the hint when you dont respond. Just keep walking and dont look at them, dont make eye contact. If you have any questions, feel free to email me.
2007-03-19 15:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys will be boys. Just ignore them...and when you see a normal guy go talk to him or something i don't know i'm married i don't even know what to do anymore lol good luck
2007-03-19 15:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get yourself a gf and start to tongue kiss her in front of these guys. Or, get a bull-dyke haircut. Or, quit being so antisocial and bang one of these guys real nice-like.
2007-03-19 15:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
just simply ignore them... if that doesn't work, then report them.
2007-03-19 22:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by xjenx3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they feel sorry for you.
2007-03-19 15:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋