2007-03-19 08:10:39 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
tell your parents! and a dr. to get on pre natals!!!
2007-03-19 08:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by puppy love 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You will eventually need to tell your parents, and I think the sooner the better. If you feel really uncomfortable telling your parents by yourself, then you can tell another adult that you trust and have them with you when you tell your parents. Be prepared for your parents to react in a negative way at first--it is natural that they will be just as scared as you are. Go to the pharmacy and get some prenatal vitamins now. I wish you the best, and congratulations. I am sure this pregnancy was not planned, but there is a new life growing inside of you, and that is fantastic and magical and wonderful all at the same time.
2007-03-19 08:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by katmarand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard as it may be, you need to tell your parents right away. The sooner you do, the more options you have.
Sit down with them TODAY when you are guaranteed some uninterrupted time. Then tell them that you have something very important to tell them and ask them to please not interrupt until you are finished. Say that you have gotten yourself into a situation and you need your help. The important thing here is to make sure that they know that they understand that you are mature enough to take responsibility. After you have told them that you are pregnant, tell them of the various options you have thought of. Then, leave them alone for a while. They need time to digest this. They probably still think of you as their "baby" and will have some issues with the fact that you are having a baby. They will feel upset, probably disappointed. Give them some time to cool off.
Hope this helps! Good luck to you and your baby!
2007-03-19 08:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by thereligiousrightisneither 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your parents. If you are going to be a parent then you need to be a mature adult. You are going to have to grow up very quickly. Being an adult means taking responsibility for everything that you have done, including getting pregnant. good luck.
2007-03-22 08:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by ladylibra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way or the other you are probably going to have to tell them. Whether you have decided to keep it, give it up for adoption, or whatever, your parents will help you and support you. They may be upset with you, but it is a real situation and you are too young to handle this on your own. Also, if you try to hide it (which is almost impossible) you will just make things worse. Take a deep breath, and tell your parents.
Good Luck
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2007-03-19 08:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Ashley,
I don't know if you learn that long ago... Take your time to get back over it a little, discuss with people who love you and see if you should tell your parents. If you don't want to tell them, maybe there are good reasons for that, but sometimes, it's easier than you think.
Get advices from people who know you and your situation well. If you don't feel comfortable, ask for medical/psych. support near you : at school or at medical/social facility. There is a lot more help around that you can imagine.
Take care...
2007-03-19 08:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Julie C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not going to be easy, but you MUST tell your parents. And you have to start seeing a doctor to make sure that you and your baby are staying healthy. The longer you go without seeing a doctor, the more problems your baby can have. Your parents will not be happy, I know. But please, for your health, and for the health of your baby, talk to them now. Be strong honey. Telling your parents is the right thing to do.
2007-03-19 08:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by sgtlambsonswife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents didn't want their 14 year old to get pregnant either but guess what......
Now you need your parents and they have to know. You'll need help in taking care of yourself and the baby, whether you keep it or not. TELL YOUR PARENTS!!
2007-03-19 08:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definetly tell your parents! The longer you wait the more you will regret it, then you will find you will make yourself sick all the time worrying about it. They will more than likely be upset at first, but they will have to get over it, they really can't do anything about it. Plus you are still their child, no matter what! Good luck!
2007-03-19 08:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for one you need too tell umm... they will be happyer that you told them than keeping it from them.....and like my parents told me if you think ur mature enogh to have sex you better be sure you are mature enough to handel the consiquenses! and that goes along with telling ur parents and raising that baby....but dont feel bad things happen...i was 16 when i found out i was pregoo. i turned 17 soon after but its still young i am due anytime now.....but my mom was upset at the time but now she is a big help...be honest with them it may take a while but its not like anyone can make it go away....good luck...any other questions feel free to e-mail me.@..ravenmgaines@msn.com
2007-03-19 09:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a little older when I got pregnant, but I was scared to tell my parent also. I thought my parent were going to be really mad but my dad was just happy he was going to have a grandchild. Tell your parent honey you will feel much better after you tell them. good luck.
2007-03-19 08:25:51 · answer #11 · answered by Brenda W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋