...with the other man? Can the other man truly trust the woman without fear of it being repeated with another man? - not saying it will but would the fear still be there?
2007-03-19 08:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. There will always be trust issues and the relationship's foundation will be built on lies and dishonesty. Remember if they cheated with you, they'll cheat on you. It's that simple.
2007-03-19 08:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If circumstances begin to lead the "other" man into thinking thoughts about why she said or did what she did, then he may begin to wonder "What if???" And he would possibly begin to remember that she did it with him, so... But, that is truly the man's decision to fully trust the woman. These things work out and these things fizzle out all the time. There's no telling what the man would feel. But, there is the possibility that it will be brought up in an argument, and the woman will have to realize and face that is the truth.
2007-03-19 08:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very unlikely. Neither my ex nor my current husband's ex - who both cheated - ended up staying with the person they had the affair with. My new husband's ex was dumped by her new hubby after he caught her using the same excuses with him that she had used to cheat before. Gee - those lies they told before don't cut it a second time. How could there ever be trust in a relationship that was built on lies to begin with? Besides - supposedly half the fun of an affair has to do with the excitement and the sneaking around. That ends pretty quickly when you are spending 24/7 with someone.
2007-03-19 08:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
95% of the time, no. These affairs end shortly after the marriage(s) from which it came from.
What makes the affair "successful" are the same things that make it unsuccessful as a marriage - the thrills of sneaking around, lying, forbidden fun. The relationship is devoid of the mundane things in life like bills, kids, family etc.
When you introduce reality into the affair it all falls apart.
Marriages are based on trust, selflessness and respect. Affairs are based on lying, selfishness and lust. Any wonder affairs don't make good marriages?
2007-03-19 08:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the questions so you know the answer. You can not trust a cheater. If they cheated to be with you they will cheat on you when the going gets tuff. You get what you deserve . Someone you never can trust. You are only kidding yourself if you think that person can ever be trusted. You chose this relationship and it is based on lies. Not a good relationship.
2007-03-19 08:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are statistics on this, 95% of marriages that start from affairs end in divorce. So you have about a 5% chance and I would say that any sane person who saw that you cheated to be with them will have that fear that you will cheat on them as well.
2007-03-19 08:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Vivita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can. Sometimes people just need some motivation to get out of an already bad relationship. It could be that they are not really cheaters by nature. But they say nature will repeat itself....
Trust your heart.
2007-03-19 09:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-19 08:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No any relationshipbased on lies can not last all affairs are based on lies.
2007-03-19 19:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If you/they did it once then they/you are apdt to do it again. Not worth it agrevation.
2007-03-19 08:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋