How to understand if one of my Scorpio friends thinks our friendship has worn off?

Question

I am a Taurus girl and I have 4 Scorpio friends - 2 girls and 2 boys and about the ways we talk or interact they all are too much different so that I can't make conclusions from one's reactions and apply to another friend of the same zodiac sign. So about that girl, she is polite with me, but actually we have just general random talk, sometimes we disagree, then we talk really more but at the other time when everything is going on alright we exchange word or two. Sometimes she is good at giving advices but sometimes when I tell her something she answers with 'alright' and I am worried if she finds our friendship has worn off? How to understand if it so and what to do for our friendship to be interesting and with more talk and sharing of stuff? I care for all the friends I have and I usually want to have the same friends for a life time.

Answer 1

Since Taurus and Scorpio are opposing signs there is bound to be some tension. If you can find out more about her chart and yours it will tell you more. Knowing where your Mercury and hers are will help because Mercury represents they way people communicate. The rising sign is the face you present to the world. Those things will be more telling than just the sun sign is.

Since the planets keep moving, the way your planets and hers work together (transits and aspects) will change over time. Maybe something has changed in your planets right now. It doesn't mean forever but change is part of life and relationships.

Answer 2

Scorpios are a master at hiding their emotions. They have a tremendous strength and power when they have managed to rise above their personality and seek power not for themselves, but to heal and bless others. They reach their goals through service, purity, compassion and humility. They have a need to redeem and transform their natures, and to have a happy marriage. Their innate curiosity makes them probe deeply into all things, seeking the meaning behind the surface. They dig out concealed facts, and are one of the most intuitive signs of the zodiac. A highly evolved Scorpio is psychic, having a rich inner life that is passionate about metaphysics.

On the negative side, Scorpios can be extremely critical, like their allies the Virgos. This can lead to a difficulty with co-workers because of strong judgments of them. Scorpios need to have more stability and steadiness with partners. Their great stubbornness makes them sometimes outsiders, tending to be lone wolves rather than equal partners in relationships

Scorpios tend to have a few, very intense relationships, rather than a coterie of acquaintances. It may be that the Scorpio's stinger alienates some possible friends; it may be that fewer individuals are capable of flying so close to the sun, or so close to the deeper issues, as the Scorpio does. It may also be that few are capable of rising from its own ashes, of changing--for the good or bad--as a Scorpio can. How many can keep up, to view the new person constantly emerging? Yet it is true that those who enjoy watching the Scorpio as it makes people see the hidden, secret meanings of life--as it rises unscathed and transforms those around it--will be most loyal and appreciative friends

In general, Scorpio likes a friend who recognizes Scorpio's magnetic superiority without fear or undue compliments.

Scorpio chooses only a few friends and expects loyalty from them. Scorpio is not a natural socializer, but will keep close friends for many years.

When Taurus and Scorpio form a friendship, the result is two signs opposite one another in the Zodiac coming together -- a blending of two halves. Signs in polarity such as these often combine to make a whole, each friend's strengths balancing the other's weaknesses. Signs in polarity often feel a strong pull to one another, and when they are together things can get extreme! Taurus and Scorpio have a great deal in common, but because they both bring such powerful personalities to this friendship, the tone often goes back and forth from enthusiasm to enthusiastic contention!

Taurus and Scorpio enjoy working together toward acquiring possessions: Taurus wants material goods, and Scorpio wants power. Both of these signs are preoccupied with wealth and resources, including inheritances and taxes. They are both passionate about all aspects of life. They complement each other because Taurus is more about the self, while Scorpio is about the immediate group, including family. Additionally, Taurus is more direct whereas Scorpio is mysterious. Because of their differences, both signs can grow and learn from each other -- that is, if they can agree to compromise.

Taurus is ruled by Venus, and Scorpio is ruled by Mars and Pluto. This combination is very intense, thanks to Pluto's influence, but it's a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. The two signs coming together form the basic foundation of human relationships -- Venus' love and Mars'
passion. Venus and Mars go well together; Venus is about beauty, and Mars is about passion. Scorpio is intense, and Taurus is attracted to this intensity; in turn, Scorpio enjoys the devotion inherent in Venus-ruled Taurus.

Taurus is an Earth Sign, and Scorpio is a Water Sign. Scorpio is a very deep sign; it's an ocean, and too much upset will cause a tidal wave! Scorpio emotionally recedes and recedes, then suddenly roars back with a vengeance. Taurus and Scorpio are strongly loyal to each other, a product of their mutual need for emotional security. While Taurus is open, with everything laid bare on the surface, Scorpio is more focused on the undercurrents of life. Scorpio can show Taurus beyond the literal surface, while Taurus can teach Scorpio to speak more frankly. Additionally, Scorpio appreciates the Taurean practicality, and Taurus enjoys Scorpio's jealousy -- it proves they are appreciated.

Taurus and Scorpio are both Fixed Signs. Once they have a common goal, nothing will get in the way. If the opinions of these friends differ, though, explosions may ensue! It often appears that Taurus dominates the pair, but that isn't always the case. Sometimes Scorpio won't even agree to disagree, although they might pretend to give in, later gaining revenge through emotional manipulation. It's important for these friends to discuss what is truly important to them so they can reach an equitable compromise. Once Scorpio learns to trust Taurus and understand the implications of a friendship", the pair can achieve almost anything through sheer determination. The friendship will only fail if these two truly cannot overcome their opinionated, fixed sides.

The best aspect of the Taurus-Scorpio friendship is their powerful teamwork when they agree on their goals. When Scorpio realizes that Taurus is there for the long term -- and will not create the misery that some Scorpios attract to their lives -- this friendship can blossom. Their mutual determination makes theirs a bond of formidable strength.