I constantly worry that something will be wrong or go wrong with my baby and I am only 11 weeks. Would the doctors know before the baby is born if something was wrong? Is there a certain time when past that point everything is ok. Can they tell about mental retardation or developmental problems before the baby is born? I know Im paranoid, Im 27 this is my first baby.
2007-03-19 07:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by Bored 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just make sure to go in for regular check-ups. Your health care professionals know what to look for, what precautions to take, etc. They'll answer any concerns that you might express. Good Luck with your baby, and enjoy the experience!
2007-03-19 07:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by xooxcable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 27 your chances of having a baby with a genetic defect or mental retardation are pretty low. Most babies are born healthy, you know. Unless mental retardation or some genetic defect runs in your family, you've got little to worry about.
There are things you can do to boost your success rate. To help increase your chances of having a healthy baby, AVOID all drugs, over-the-counter medications (except Tylenol), all alcohol, nicotine, cigarettes, second-hand smoke, and caffiene.
DO eat plenty of organic fruits and vegetables and take a DAILY prenatal vitamin! Eat as healthfully as possible. You are what you eat and so is baby.
Miscarriages are common in your first trimester, particularly with a first baby. But your chances drop dramatically with each passing week and by week no. 12, your chances of miscarraige are very very very low (less than 1 percent or so).
To rule out birth defects, you can do CVS (chorionic villius sampling) after the first trimester is over or Amniocentesis at 16 weeks or so. There is some risk to the fetus, though, but these can provide peace of mind that your baby is chromosomally perfect. Amnio is the safest of the two, and is very safe if your practitioner is very experienced in doing this test and they use ultrasound to guide the needle.
Your OB will also do a comprehensive ultrasound at 20 weeks designed to find any visible birth defects.
Hope this helps, and you need to just relax. you will be fine!
2007-03-19 07:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by EmLa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, try not to get too stressed out and worry so much about this. In the first three months, the chances of a miscarriage are the highest, so getting yourself worked up and stressed is not going to help. The best thing to do right now is to be healthy and stress free (minimize stress).
The doctors will be able to know if something is wrong with the baby before it's born. Ultrasounds and blood tests help doctors determine if anything is wrong. The farther along you get, the doctors will take some blood test and one is for down syndrome and such.
Just try not to get too stressed and worry too much.
Good Luck. =]
2007-03-19 07:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The doctors use your family history (and your partner's), bloodwork, ultrasound and a battery of other tests to determine if something is wrong before you deliver. Most of the tests are voluntary and unless you're older (meaning over 30) and have a history of developmental problems in your family, most tests will be unneccessary. It's up to you and your doctor (and your health insurance since they have to agree to pay) as to what tests to order and when.
But don't stress! Take your prenatals, see your OB regularly, don't drink/smoke/do drugs, eat right, exercise (unless your doc has told you not to) and be happy!
2007-03-19 07:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by sgtlambsonswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel that way, but your doctor knows if everything is ok. As far as finding out for sure about birth defects, I would avoid having any unneccessary tests as some actually do cause birth defects. Just be happy and not worry and your baby will be very healthy. Good luck.
2007-03-19 07:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal to worry about your baby. There are tests that your doctor will offer to you at different times during your pregnancy that can tell you different things about your baby. Be aware that many of these tests give a false positive which leads to more worrying and more tests. When it came time for me to have these tests, my husband and I decided to decline. Regardless of what the results, we were still going to keep the baby and do whatever was necessary to accommodate its needs. The only time you are truly relieved is when you hold it in your arms.
2007-03-19 07:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by JEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok relax. i know easier said then done and your not alone. whether its your first or fifth mothers always worry about the outcome of there pregnancy. your 14th week is when your chance for miscarriage goes down. after that they can do a test for retardation but i never go for that in not that accurate and can do more harm then good. truely you won't feel less worried until you are counting the babies hands and toes yourself. until then do your best to stay healthy. take your vitamin and drink plenty of water. stay away from cig. and stuff. walk as often as you can and nap when you feel need. you will do fine. good luck honey and try to relax.
2007-03-19 07:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is why you go in for check-ups and conagrams
2007-03-19 07:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by bubba23111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋