Several years ago, I broke-off with a woman because I knew that a few of my friends had had sex with her. I just didn't think I could carry it off. Now, I wonder if I made a mistake. Has anyone has experience in this area?
2007-03-19 07:41:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What another person has done in the past is at least irrelevant to your relationship with them, and usually isn't even any of your business. If it was a problem, it was your problem, not hers, and if you made a mistake, it was in not being able to get over it and treat her as her own person, instead of getting jealous over her past.
2007-03-19 07:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by stmichaeldet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, why not? What exactly bothers you? In my humble opinion, having been in the dating game for a while, is what does it matter? So, in my opinion, yes, if you liked the girl, you made a huge mistake and your intolerance is showing.
2007-03-19 15:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by rowlfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if this happened a long time ago and she has since then been just to you. Then I wouldn't worry about it. But I would keep an eye on them. If you married her right afterwards then she might still be acting the same way, just more secretive about it.
2007-03-19 14:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep. when i first meet my wife she was see a guy that i new and was a good friend. after they broke up she told me that she did it with him and would it be ok with me knowing that she did it. It toke me a year but i did get over it and i no longer see that friend. As long you never bring it up the it would be fine.
2007-03-19 15:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you care is the question?? If she was with some of your friends had already slept with her then why are you with her in the first place?
The past should be the past.... put are you comfortable being around your friends and your girl?
2007-03-19 14:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Valentina 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sad to say it happened to my brother. His friend made her bark like a dog adn after hearing that my brother could never date her again. She was an amazing woman also
2007-03-19 15:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem to need a virgin. Who cares if you happen to actually know someone your girl has been with in the past? Is it more comfortable to you to see the past relationships as all strangers? Why?
2007-03-19 14:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing. You should only marry a chick if she has very few miles. Very few.
2007-03-19 14:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think I could. I don't even like to see men that my wife has slept with.
2007-03-19 15:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally would be disgusted..I am very moral and believe in being with just one person..I would fear those "best friends" would come back for more.
2007-03-19 14:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by Diana 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋