okay here is my problem, I am 21 and married to a great guy but I find myself fantasising about women... I mean I guess i always was attracted to other women but I never thought much of it. I think that my husband is nothing more then my best friend and I dont know what to do...
2007-03-19 07:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by Jodi Lee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
he wont mind............if he can watch
2007-03-19 07:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I guess I think if it really bothers you, you should be honest with your husband and tell him whats going on. It is going to be hard. You have to figure out if youre willing to lose him bc he may react badly. What is the price of your happiness? It can be very expensive at first. If you dont pay a fee now, you may be paying forever. I think you owe it to yourself to at least explore into it.
2007-03-19 15:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by U2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard before making any rash decisions. Maybe see a counselor to help you sort through the emotions. You don't want to end a marriage simply because of feelings or curiousity for women. You can't go back once you leave him for that reason, so don't do it unless you're sure you want to.
2007-03-19 14:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by jjspike 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever been with a woman? You should try it.... you will like it.... I tried it and I never went back LOLOL!!
But seriously, You should explore your options. Your still young and you are married which may mean you are feeling a little left out. I recommend you try hooking up with a woman just to see if there is any chemistry..... if not, at least you know you still have men....
2007-03-19 14:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think no matter how difficult you should talk to your husband, its got to be hard for both of you but there is no piont spending your one shot at life unhappy.
You may work things out with him, or he may suprise you and understand.
Good luck with this what ever happens you should be happy its your life too
2007-03-19 15:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to fantasize about other women. It's not that you're a lesbian, but you're going through a phase right now. Try watching some porno's with your man.... with 2 women in them and one man... maybe that's all you need.
2007-03-19 14:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you're a same sex kinda girl -- maybe you should discuss this with your husband or a therapists if you're unhappy about your secret feelings but remember to stay who you are.
2007-03-19 14:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Okaydokay21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Discuss it with you husband. You must have your eye on a particular female partner. Maybe you just need to go for it.
2007-03-19 14:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-19 14:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by chilingurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel...in my opinion you got married to young...try it out
2007-03-19 15:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weellll get a girlfriend on the side!
2007-03-19 14:56:52 · answer #11 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋