I hate waiting but i dont want to give it up till im married. I think of it all the time but would never do it....is that normal?
2007-03-19 07:41:11 · 33 answers · asked by superhottie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes it's normal to want to have sex and scared to go all the way. I thought about it a lot when I was younger. Masturbate to relieve your stress about sex. I think you are too young. I think if I knew then how i was I would have waited. Don't get me wrong making love to my husband is the best but what I'm talking about is having sex with someone that you are not in love with and the only reasons you do it is because everyone else is. Live your life now and be happy not to have to grow up. Once you grow up there is no going back to being a child. So live life to the fullest!!!!
2007-03-19 07:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by letigutierrez77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you said you hate waiting but don't want to give it up until you are married leads me to believe that you are responding to what you have been hearing people talk about sex. You know that waiting until marriage is the right thing to do but you think you are missing out on something by not having sex. The reality in today's world is that most people (especially young people) are no longer concerned about safety with regards to sexual activity and therefore the risk of contracting a STD is very real and really the best thing to do for your safety is to wait. Don't think about it so much when the time is right for you, you will know and you won't feel undecided and pressured, so you will enjoy every moment of it. Hold on and be safe!
2007-03-19 08:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by redz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
normal yes a good idea no. you can please yourself when you get the urge and dont feel guilty about it either and dont listen to your friends as far as getting into it and that your a prude an garbage like that be yourself and itll happen when its meant to be not because everyone thinks its what should be so chill an do it yourself less headaches and no one to boss you around and think they own you and trash talk after they dump . get busy with other activities and live a little first you will eventually give it up and i dont want you to be sorry ya did so wait till your a little more grown up an that has nothing to do with having had sex either
2007-03-19 09:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's normal to think about having sex. Think about it your hormones are jumping. But be smart just wait and if you can wait until you get married. You would be one in a million. The road will be hard but it's all up to you, just value yourself.
2007-03-22 15:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes its normal! lol I have a 16 year old son who constantly thinks it!!!!! Hormones r racing like crazy and its 100% normal I promise you! Just because you think of it or even r tempted to do it- remember- you can only give away your virginity one time in a life time so save it for the man you love!!!! There r alot of other things you can do that will not hurt your innocence
2007-03-19 07:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer 13 nor 14, so i do no longer possibly understand what your age group does now on weekends. maximum of them are in all probability out attempting to be too grown. at the beginning enable me say this whilst i grow to be you age which grow to be approximately 8 years in the past, i did no longer do plenty the two, extremely you're doing plenty extra effective than I did. On weekends i might basically go procuring with my mom and sis, play with my cousins, or stay at domicile and combat with my siblings. I had some friends, yet we did no longer carry out plenty after college hours. perhaps you ought to commence having some pajama events/sleepovers basically you and a few woman friends. At your age i think of it would be sort of exciting basically watch video clips, eat pizza and ice cream, do eachother's hair, and communicate approximately teenager stuff. in case you think of that's too lame you additionally can attempt taking part in some activities. desire this enables.
2016-10-02 09:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by rollman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. Just remember once you "give it up", you can't get it back again. Stick to your resolve to wait until marriage, or at least until you hit your 20's. There is enough going on in your life right now without complicating it with sex. Good luck.
2007-03-19 07:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by kat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal.
You're smart to think of waiting. You've got a lot of things to figure out for yourself before you go confusing everything with sex.
2007-03-19 07:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's very normal! You are at an age where your hormones are driving you crazy! Both guys and girls constantly think about sex at that age. The important thing is not to let your hormones rule your actions.
2007-03-19 08:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by thereligiousrightisneither 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many teenagers confuse 'sex urges' with 'puppy love' or the 'sex urges' with acceptance of another teenagers attention.
Just focus on your education and stay away from your friends who do nothing but constantly talk about it.
Please wait until you're married.
2007-03-19 07:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋