i'm 17 and my bro is 16, and my sisters are 15 and 14. they are all for it, i'm not. the last thing i need is bunch of teenagers trashing our house. how can i stop them? words already spreading around school and i don't want them to get in trouble with my parents. help!!!
2007-03-19 07:19:04 · 16 answers · asked by I'm 17 and ME!!!!!! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
tell your parents before it happens, they may get in trouble, but you won't
2007-03-19 07:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by i totally agree with you!! not 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
"Word is already spreading..."! Big Sis,it's already gone too far. The only way to stop this from becoming a disaster is to let your parents know now. They need to take appropriate steps now to stop this. Once they've been informed then it is their responsibility - not yours. I can understand you feeling reluctant to get your sib's in trouble BUT by not telling it's almost certain that there will be worse trouble. It's the same lesson you learned when you were little about good vs. bad secrets. Even if you tell your parents anonymously, it's extremely important that they know. It isn't just a matter of your siblings having a few friends over - because the word has gone out you and your sib's no longer have any control over what happens. Yes, you could call the police if things get bad. But think of all that can happen in between when you realize that things are out of control and when the police have arrived and have cleaned out the house of unwanted guests. Ultimately, your siblings will know you did the right thing. Good luck Sweety.
2007-03-19 07:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by zenobia2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. If they absolutely must leave town, ask them to have another adult stay at the house with you. If you cannot do that then insist that all your sibs go with you to the movie. Leave the house and leave a note on the door that the rumor was false and there's no party.
Leaving 4 teenagers alone for the weekend is pretty much asking for trouble. Your parents should know better.
2007-03-19 10:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it ---the party that is. Just call your parents and ask them to leave you out of it. They can pretend they "heard it through the grapevine" since you say word has already spread all over the school. Perhaps a parent of a would be party goer heard her child talking about it and decided to call your mom and dad???? Just a thought.
2007-03-19 07:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, if they leave you in charge, you have to put your foot down, and if people start to show up, stop them at the door and tell them turn turn their happy little butts around and go back home. If people show up and come in without you wanting them to, call the Police, I'm sure that by this point your siblings will get the picture that you are NOT going to let this happen.
2007-03-19 07:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I see a disaster in the making. These affairs never end well. Tell your parents now what's up. How much trouble do you think your sibs will be in if they go through with their plans?
2007-03-19 07:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Their is three against one. Find a way for a teacher to find out so they can call your parents. Just take the blame right along with them and you won't look like the bad one in the situation.
2007-03-19 07:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw your siblings. Tell your parents otherwise because you ARE the oldest, even if it wasn't your idea, you'll be the one in trouble!
2007-03-19 07:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by schmidtee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you are the oldest - tell your sisters NO PARTY!!!!!!!!!!
If they insist - then call the police everytime one of their friends show up.
2007-03-19 07:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them an offer they can't refuse. Get over it; call it off. or I will tell MOM and DAD.You will have to deal with them .OK?
2007-03-19 07:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋