what do u do when?

Question

someone you trusted witha secret told but you dont know wich one of the people told your secret?

Answer 1

Ask them each separately and directly. Not in an accusatory tone either. Ask them if they might have said it to someone else, or could someone else have maybe overheard them. Allow them the opportunity to answer without feeling accused. Also, for something like this e-mail works wonders because it provides a feeling of 'distance' and anonymity that may put them more at ease.

Answer 2

Ask all of the people you told the secret too, alone. If none of them confess, then ask the person who was told, who told them the secret. And, a secret is supposed to be kept to your self, or only one other person. Also, if this was a big secret, you shouldn't have told anyone, because no matter how trust worthy, they will eventually hold the secret against you, or tell. If the person who was told the secret doesn't tell you who told, then don't talk to any of your friends, until one of them confesses, then don't trust them anymore with your secrets. It could have been all of them who told too, or someone could have just heard you, so don't be too quick to accuse either.

Answer 3

Hmmm...if it was a secret, why did you tell more than 1 person anyways???? If you tell more than 1 person, then it's not a secret anymore.....

Answer 4

Do you really need to find out? They may not have deliberatly said it, it may have slipped out or somebody guessed. If i were you i wouldn't try to guess who it was, that will make you feel bad, them feel bad and break a valuable friendship. You should just leave it and be really really careful who you tell your secrets to (if at all). xx

Answer 5

a secret is only a secret when it has not been shared

Answer 6

if you told yur secret to more tahn one people than..it is nto a secret anymore.

Answer 7

Just get through it. Eventually it will pass. DO NOT BLAME YOUR FRIENDS. That will only lead to trouble.

Answer 8

i dont trust someone