What are the various manifestations of mental/emotional state in pre-menopausal women?

Question

I am almost 43 and I am "PMS"ey ALL THE TIME it seems. I feel like each day I wake up I am just waiting to die. I am married to an abusive man, I have grown and small children...7 total, and I feel I have no other purpose except to serve these people. I do not enjoy life at all except through the happinesses of my kids. But it is not the same. Dont say it is the abusive only. Its been that way a long time but only in the last year or do I become irate in 2 seconds and absolutely NO PATIENCE! and I also realize depression is a possibilty. But my question is, is pre-menopause a factor as well and is there ANYTHING i can take or do to balance myself?

Answer 1

WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT....
*crying*
hahahahhaha...
YOU ARE JUST BEING MEAN...


wah wah wah

Answer 2

1. I would see your Gyn for advice on this.

It sounds like a little bit of everything is effecting you. You entering your perimenapausal years is not helping any.

2. Leave your abusive husband. Living in an abusive environment will lead to an early death. Don't stay because of the kids. Take the younger ones with you. Get out and be safe.

Answer 3

It sounds like you're under a lot of stress. Everything has been building up all these years, and whatever defense mechanism that held it all in check is weakening. Others see you as the "nice" person, a persona you have been struggling to maintain. I don't see this as PMS: it's bigger than that. I think you are approaching a "bottom" that only a member of Alanon would understand. Please try an Alanon meeting, or a Coda (codependent anonymous) meeting. You have held up admirably all these years, but enough is enough. What you have dealt with has worn you down, and you need help to regain your center.

Answer 4

I suggest you take the black current seed oil and borage seed oil .....and to further alleviate the monthly discomfort experienced by women, take with Liquid Cal/Mag, PhosChol 565 and Super One A Day.