I was just looking around online today and found that my husband has own Myspace blog.
But when I read he's profile it said he was single and didn't want kids. He's profile was last updated 7/11/06.
At this time I was 8 months pregnant and he also has 3 kids from he's previous marraige.
Should i confront him about this? What could he's reasons be? Or am I being paranoid?
2007-03-19 06:52:43 · 24 answers · asked by vixwood1979 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you're being paranoid. The default settings for myspace are single and don't want any kids. He probably joined myspace to check on one of his 3 other kids.
Calm down..you can confront him but then he might want to know why are you spying on him.
2007-03-19 06:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you know the answer. If you don't confront him, you'll always wonder what the heck he's doing. TRUST YOUR INNER VOICE, or your gut, or whatever you want to call it. I learned a LONG time ago, if something doesn't feel right, I can trust that it's NOT! My husband did the same thing, and lied about it. I found out he had a little thing going with a girl half his age that he got a job at his work as the receptionist. HE said it was all word games, but I talked to the girl, and she said it could have gone as far as she wanted it to. I believe her. I then found out about a lot of other things. He'd been meeting up with women the whole 8 years of our marriage. He'd called dating services, and tried to arrange meetings, the list went on and on.
The moral of the story is....you can ignore this and pretend like it isn't a horse, but it won't make it "not so". But if you do confront him, be prepared for a sleugh of lies....and believe them if you want to....and he will continue to play.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
2007-03-19 07:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it depends. Do you know most of his myspace friends? Are most of them guys or girls? What are the comments on his page like? What do his blogs say? Are they derogatory toward you? If he hasn't logged on since July of last year then it's probably nothing. If most of the friends are men and stuff he probably used it as a way to vent without getting into an argument with you. I've been on his side of this issue and my ex-wife assumed a lot of stuff that weren't even close to being accurate. Please look at all the facts before discovering a "secret" and assuming the worst.
2007-03-19 06:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by castzpg 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i'm assuming you recommend myspace or some thing like it. i wouldn't have a profile firstly, yet when I did i'd eliminate the %., and so on. If i'm no longer married to someone or am in the technique of divorcing, i do not imagine it may make a lot experience to pronounce in the different case on line.
2016-12-02 05:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you post a picture of you and the kids on his myspace and see what he tells you. Then you could bring up the fact that he claims to be single with no kids. I have a myspace and my husband and kids are all over it. Maybe he has something to hide.
2007-03-19 07:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer A 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no reason he should have that unless hes got someone on the side or trying. Dont say anyhting cause you can watch his comments and stuff on there, plus think about making your own and pretending to be someone else. If he isnt still using it i would confront him men can be stupid and not think! im so sorry that he did this while you were pregnant my man did the same thing with text messages one week before i was to give birth and i forgave but its very hard to forget. good luck.
2007-03-19 06:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by breezy_er 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Chat rooms lead people to lie about themselves. People i know waste hours everyday on the laptop going on my space.
Don't confront him because he isn't cheating on you, he is just making friends and chatting with strangers as stupid as that sounds.
It was wrong of him not to tell you that he has his own space and that he lied about being single. but that's what chat rooms let you do. I think everyone married with children wishes they were single and have no kids, but he has to face the fact that this isn't true.
If i was you....i wouldn't suffer in silence, so talk to your husband if it makes you feel better. He is probably lonely now and i doubt that he wants to be single, so don't worry about the sluts on the Internet chatting him up...because i think that won't happen!
Good luck!
2007-03-19 07:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Want Your Bad Romance 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He may be just looking for something on the side but not in the physical need. If it is just computer talk well how do you feel about that. I mean if all he does is talk then is that wrong? I guess it depends on how you feel. What were you doing going to my space? Are you looking for a computer friend?
2007-03-19 07:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by dee_belle 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL. I would set up a myspace page of my own then ask him to be my friend. Sleaze it up some and see if he recognizes you. Then serve him with divorce papers requesting full custody of your kids since he doesn't want any.
2007-03-19 07:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should confront him with what you found and ask him to explain it. There is no good explanation for it. Do you think that it lead to an affair? You definitely need to talk to him about it.
2007-03-19 07:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋